Fun or Play spankings are much more fun for both of us and we tend to use spanking as a form of foreplay once or twice a week on average. I like to start the anticipation for our spanking fun as early as I can in the day.
Sometimes when he is getting dressed for work, I will pull out a pair of sexy panties and tell him that I would really like for him to wear them that day. He knows that is a signal from me that I plan to spank him that evening. He immediately gets stiff and he tells me that he anticipates our "spanking date" all day long. Other times, I will just grab his bottom during the afternoon on a weekend and say something like "Somebody has been a bit naughty today and needs to have his bottom warmed". Or, I leave a pair of panties and a light paddle on the bed for him to see when he arrives home from work. It is always fun to see his excited reaction to these little things. It also keeps me at a high anticipation level, because I love to paddle his cute bottom.
As you can see, spanking really provides the core to the rejuenation of our marriage.