Fun/Play Spankings

I like to differentiate between what I call 'fun' or 'play' spankings from a 'punishment' spanking.  Most of our activities fall into the 'fun' or 'play' category, although that doesn't mean that they don't include a lot of sting and a sore bottom.  Barry is very arroused by being spanked and he has quite a high pain tolerance.  That created a challenge for me when I wanted to punish him for something.  My normal spankings weren't very much of a punishment.  I have previously discussed how I administer a Punishment spanking in the Fun vs Punishment Spankings post.

Fun or Play spankings are much more fun for both of us and we tend to use spanking as a form of foreplay once or twice a week on average.  I like to start the anticipation for our spanking fun as early as I can in the day. 


Sometimes when he is getting dressed for work, I will pull out a pair of sexy panties and tell him that I would really like for him to wear them that day.  He knows that is a signal from me that I plan to spank him that evening.  He immediately gets stiff and he tells me that he anticipates our "spanking date" all day long.  Other times, I will just grab his bottom during the afternoon on a weekend and say something like "Somebody has been a bit naughty today and needs to have his bottom warmed".  Or, I leave a pair of panties and a light paddle on the bed for him to see when he arrives home from work.  It is always fun to see his excited reaction to these little things.  It also keeps me at a high anticipation level, because I love to paddle his cute bottom.

Fun or Play spankings have a very different feel to both of us than Punishment spankings.  Barry prefers implements that are stingy and light.  Thus, I love to use lighter wood or leather paddles for our fun times.  The heavy, thuddy hairbrush is reserved for punishment.  Fun/Play spankings are usually administered in the bedroom, but sometimes in our family room.  They also are ususally quite lengthy.  I love him over my lap, but I also enjoy sitting on his back, facing his bottom.  I also love to spank using different techniques, such as covering the full width of his bottom or one cheek at a time; spanking methodically or randomly.  I will talk more about techniques in a later post.

Most importantly, we both like it when I spank in a way that provides sting .... lots and lots of sting.  I love to watch his bottom turn red and I almost feel like an artist working with a blank canvas when I start.  "What type of picture shall I paint tonight?" :-)  Shall I make one cheek red to start?  Or, shall I start at top and work down?  Or, just gradually bring his entire bottom to a brilliant shade of red.  Barry's bottom colors up nicely, but doesn't bruise, so he provides a wonderful surface to work on.  When I am done spanking, then more fun begins.  He is almost always still fully erect and ready for action.  However, we also vary what we do after the spanking foreplay, but that is also another separate topic that I need to fully address.

As you can see, spanking really provides the core to the rejuenation of our marriage.