So, there I was with Barry lying on his back on the bed. The first thing I did was take a scarf from my dresser drawer and blindfold him. I decided that I didn't want him to see what I had planned for him until I had everything in place. I then decided that I wanted to tie him up like the men he had seen in the videos. Not knowing what else to use, I found four of his older neckties and used them to tie his hands and ankles to the four bed posts. He was then completely exposed and helpless, which I think is what he wanted, based on the videos he had been watching. To make sure he understood that, I played a bit with his penis and testicles and told him to make sure he stayed put until I returned. At that point, he was moaning a bit and had a very stiff erection (which again, amazed me since he had already had an orgasm).
I then gathered and prepared some supplies that I thought would be useful: a bottle of baby oil, a wet washcloth that I heated up in the microwave, some ice cubes, an emory board type nail file, the electric vibrator we had recently purchased ... anything I could think of to provide different sensations. Finally, I removed my clothes and put on some lacey lingerie which I knew that Barry loved.
I then sat on the bed beside Barry and removed his blindfold. While I used my fingers to tease his inner thighs and genitals, we had a little talk. However, I did almost all of the talking. I informed Barry things were going to be different now. I let him know that I had ways to know if he was using the computer without me present and that I could also tell if he had masturbated, since his underwear and genitals have a definite odor until he changes and takes a shower. I shared with him that it is apparent that he likes handjobs and likes tease and denial activities. I would now be providing both to him. However, since I will be in control, if the decision is to "deny", that is what will happen. I also explained that when he wants to surf the internet porn sites, I will be right at his side making sure he doesn't touch himself and that I will see whatever interests and excites him. During all of this, I allowed my fingers to lightly roam all over his body. He was having a very difficult time concentrating.
I then advised Barry that it was time for his first tease and denial session with me and that I had not yet decided if he would be denied or allowed to orgasm again. For the next half hour or so (Barry later told me it seemed like hours), I used all of my supplies and my hands to keep him permanently excited, but never let him orgasm. Before I was done, he was begging me to let him cum. I eventually decided to allow him to do so, but I also decided to employ something I saw in one of the videos. So, I told him I would use the vibrator on him and he could have an orgasm. What I didn't tell him was that I didn't plan to turn the vibrator off when he climaxed.
Once he had climaxed, I looked into his eyes and asked him if he remembered the particular video he had watched where the male continued to be stimulated for ten minutes after climax. A look of fear came over his face. I also asked him if he remembered what the woman had said at the point of climax. I could tell he did as I said it to him ... "And now the real fun begins".
So, you have now heard a detailed version of what happened early in our transition to this new life style and how I took control of Barry. I must confess that I found it very exciting. I found that I love to control Barry. I make sure that he is sexually satisfied, and that I am as well. It was not easy for me, but it has been extremely rewarding for both of us. We have continued to move forward in ways that arrouse and excite each of us; and have brought us closer together.
In future blogs, I will attempt to share more current thoughts and activities.