Barry and I have each agreed to a number of house rules that we feel make our relationship stronger and more enriching. These include:
- Devotional Sex is our primary guide for sex and making love. Barry will be my Knight and I will be his Princess.
- Whenever we disagree about something (which is OK), we each must be respectful of each other and their opinion.
- No whining about anything.
- Barry must keep his private area and bottom clean shaven at all times. He is primarily responsible for shaving as needed. However, I will frequently assist him. (I love using shaving cream and a razor down there and enjoying the baby smooth results, especially when it comes to spanking a just shaven bottom.)
- Barry where's women's panties at all times for underwear (given his pantie fetish, he actually enjoys this most of the time).
- I will allow Barry to shave and groom my pubic hair as long as he leaves a normal looking triangle.
- Barry is not allowed to masturbate without my specific permission and usually my presence. This is one of the hardest rules for Barry to follow, so he frequently voluntarily wears a chastity device. I do not require that, but he finds it helpful in achieving compliance.
- Barry must limit his internet activity to only websites which I have approved unless I am present with him. This is another tool to help him achieve compliance with the "no masturbation" rule.
- In order to facilitate monitoring Barry's internet activity, he is not allowed to delete any browsing history from our computer. If I find that the history has been altered, it is considered prima facie evidence that he violated the previous rule.
- Since his serious medical condition occured, I attend all medical appointments with Barry. I will write more specific information about this rule in a later posting.
- Since we both retired, we have divided the housekeeping duties. Barry's responsibilities include: weekly vacuuming, weekly cleaning of the kitchen, daily breakfast dishes, daily helping with dinner dishes, daily help with dinner preparations.
- Violation of any of the rules by Barry is a spankable offense, the time and severity of the spanking to be determined by me. Barry also agrees to accept a punishment spanking from me at at time for any other behavioral issue for which I feel he deserves to be spanked.
- Violation of the 2nd and 3rd rules (respect and whining) by me are spankable offenses, the time and severity of the spanking to be determined by Barry (I have not yet violated these rules).
We will continue to fine tune these rules. Spanking has always proven to be a very effective punishment for Barry, once I committed myself to administering a true punishment spanking when appropriate. These type of punishment spankings aren't required nearly as often any more. However, they occasionally become necessary. Most of the spankings that Barry now receives are of the fun variety, which we each enjoy.
Best wishes to all for a Happy Thanksgiving and travel safely if you are on the road.