tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20370680086371312242024-03-05T21:13:33.636-05:00A Spanking MarriageSharing from a previous vanilla wife about her struggle to incorporate spanking and other kinkiness in her marriage; and how it has grown to much more than that. Life is a journey and should be enjoyed.Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.comBlogger196125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-82883825448392277252017-07-25T17:20:00.000-04:002017-07-25T17:22:56.009-04:00I'm BackI've had a desire to get back to blogging for a couple of weeks now. However, it has been difficult to decide what topic to pursue in a post. Our life has returned to normal as I learned to deal with the fact that we have a President who is a chronic liar and has no moral compass. OK, I've said it and will now stay away from anything political in this blog.<br />
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My challenge about what to post has been difficult because, while Barry and I are having a wonderful time doing what we do, there hasn't been much new to talk about. We enjoy the many things together that I have already blogged about. And, we enjoy getting together with Carol and Henry to role play. Life is good in this area. But you have heard so much about these things and I don't want to be repetitious and boring.<br />
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However, today Carol shared something new with me. She is still working and has contacts with more people than I. Carol is also more outgoing and willing to personally share her life with others than I. Consequently, I have been aware that she has not been shy about sharing with her co-workers that she spanks Henry and enjoys a kinky sex life with him. I wish I could be that free and open, but I'm not.<br />
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To get back on point, today Carol shared with me that she was approached by a woman with whom she works about how she learned to spank Henry. Her co-worker is much younger than Carol (almost could be her daughter). She is married to a man who has shared with her his desire and need to be spanked. She wants to fulfill his need and has tried. However, she has apparently not been very successful because she doesn't want to inflict pain on him (even though he professes to desire it).<br />
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Carol has agreed to get together with her and has asked me if I would like to join them. I'm OK with meeting with them and have agreed to do so. Carol will now set up a time for us to get together.<br />
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I'm not sure where this will lead, but I confess that I am intrigued and want to help someone who is trying to understand this thing we do about spanking.<br />
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Susan Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com25tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-48397294029882757922017-04-02T15:24:00.001-04:002017-04-02T16:14:22.189-04:00Why I'm AbsentI'm sorry that I haven't posted recently. I suspect that many of you may be wondering what has happened to us. Our lives continue. We are enjoying life as best we can. And, we are having some fun. But most of our recent focus has been on the current political world. I don't want to go there in this blog. I'm not taking a political side, because I don't believe that any one individual or political party can know what is right or the best course of action. But I do feel a need to share that writing this current blog has become very trivial compared to how divided we seem to have become in this country. That saddens and disturbs me greatly.<br />
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Any news that is not liked by our current administration is labeled "Fake News". And,yes, there is a lot of "Fake News" out there. So, how do we decide what is "Fake News"? Is it anything we don't agree with? Or do we need to find better ways to figure out what is fake and what is not? I don't have an answer.<br />
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Our two legislative bodies are very divided and it seems clear that members of both parties don't respect members from the other party. What happened to being able to listen and learn from each other? What happened to working together for the common good?<br />
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We seem to have lost so much at this time. Our history is full of wonderful statesmen and consensus builders. But,stop and think about it ... among all of our current political leaders (over the past twenty years), who is going to stand out in history as a statesman or a consensus builder? There are a few, but too few.<br />
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How did we become so divided? And, how do we recover? How do we learn to talk together and respect each other?<br />
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When I can stop worrying about the world we are leaving to our children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, etc ... I'll try to return to this blog.<br />
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SusanSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-17926642437712725922017-03-05T15:15:00.000-05:002017-03-05T15:15:01.433-05:00Friendly Competition ResultsThe results are in! Saturday evening was a lot of fun. We gathered at Henry's house with a potluck of sorts. We decided to enjoy a munching dinner as we played our game. So, we each brought some finger foods that would compose our dinner as well as the beverages we desired. The game took place in the sitting area of Henry's downstairs office/playroom.<br />
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We settled into play the game as soon as we were together, since we were all anxious to get to the activity after a winner was declared. Both teams were confident of winning ... and it turned out to be very close. We used the Baby Boomer Edition question cards and we modified the game rules a bit to shorten the game. For each turn, the playing team could choose the category they wished to answer, regardless of where they had landed. It really kept things moving, which is what we wanted. We each moved quickly to the point of having answered a question correctly in category. However, in order to win, we had to answer a final question in a category chosen by the other team. Of course, we each selected our opponent's weakest category. After several unsuccessful attempts by each team, Carol and I prevailed!!<br />
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The men couldn't believe that they lost, but were good sports and quickly congratulated us. Carol and I didn't waste any time in moving to the next phase of our evening. Barry and Henry were directed to strip down to their panties. They were then sent into the same bathroom off the playroom and instructed to use a fleet enema to cleanse themselves. I would have loved to have overheard their conversation as they each had to give themselves an enema. When they returned, they found Carol and I sitting in two straight chairs facing each other. Over our knees they went. I was spanking Barry and Carol was spanking Henry, but we could each reach the other man's bottom and took turn spanking the other man from time to time. We gave them a prolonged warm-up hand spanking to prepare their bottoms for more serious paddling later.<br />
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We then moved into the playroom with the spanking bench and gynecological exam table. After blindfolding each of them and removing their panties, Barry was secured to the bench and Henry to the exam table (we later reversed their positions). I'm not going to try to provide a detailed account of everything we did. However, I will share that each gentleman experienced a wide variety of genital teasing and denial (neither were permitted an orgasm until the very end), anal stimulation (anal beads, butt plugs, pegging), and electrical stimulation (penile and anal), as well as spanking, paddling, and strapping. All activities were conducted with a goal of giving them pleasure, but not letting them orgasm.<br />
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When we reached the end of the agreed upon two hour time period, we each retreated to two separate bedrooms in Henry's home. Barry finally experienced some relief of his sexual frustration and provided me with multiple orgasms (both oral and penetration). While, I did not ask Carol for any details, it was clear from what she said that she and Henry had a very enjoyable experience as well. When we awoke in the morning, the men cooked us a wonderful breakfast (I don't think I have shared this before, but Henry loves to cook. We all has smiles on our faces and we decided that we need to do this again. Carol and I even confessed that it might be as much fun to lose as to win!<br />
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-16269693713135699982017-02-28T11:22:00.001-05:002017-02-28T11:22:45.929-05:00Friendly Competition - continuedI would like to first thank everyone for their wonderful comments and suggestions to my last post. The four of us got together this past weekend for some fun and we talked about your ideas. We decided to hold the contest next weekend and to use Trivial Pursuit as our game. After much discussion, we decided that the teams will be men vs women. Couple vs couple presented some interesting possibilities, but Carol and I really want it to be a battle of the sexes. We also feel that we can win :-). The next decision concerned what edition of Trivial Pursuit to use. Between the three households, we have a number of sets of cards, including: Sports, Baby Boomer, Silver Screen, TV, Juniors, and Family editions. The men, of course, wanted Sports. Carol and I wanted Silver Screen. Neither one of those seemed fair. Again, after discussion, we settled on either the Baby Boomer or TV edition. We voted and it ended up a tie. A coin toss made Baby Boomer the winner. Carol and I are very comfortable with that, as are Barry and Henry.<br />
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We then discussed what we will play for. That created a very interesting discussion because we had to weigh the reality that either team could win lose. What we might want as winners could feel very different as losers! We finally settled on the following parameters, as of now:<br />
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<li>The game will take place at Henry's home were we have the benefit of his playroom and extensive amount of equipment.</li>
<li>Carol, Barry, and I can also bring any toys or equipment that we wish to supplement what is there.</li>
<li>The losing team must submit during a two hour period to anything desired by members of the winning team.</li>
<li>Each member of the losing team must submit to anything requested by either member of the winning team. However, each member of the winning team has veto power over anything that s/he feels is inappropriate. For example, if the women win and Carol requests something of Barry that I am uncomfortable with, I can veto it.</li>
<li>We also established some hard limits. This list may also expand before next Saturday. At this time the hard limits are:</li>
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<li>no vaginal sex unless it is between Barry and me or Henry and Susan</li>
<li>no oral sex between non-mates unless the giving party consents and it is OK with his/her mate</li>
<li>no anal sex with a woman unless it is with the winner's mate (we did not limit pegging of the men)</li>
<li>if any sexual contact is involved between non-mates, all four of us must be in the room when it takes place </li>
<li>any spanking of a woman must be with just the hand or the use of a previously agreed upon "light" implement (we will designate them before the contest begins)</li>
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I'm sure that we will have additions to the rules before we begin on Saturday, but I think we have a basic agreement in place. I also think that each side will have a very competitive desire to win!</div>
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I'll let you know what happens. We all think it will be fun.</div>
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-35560525409761807222017-02-22T13:45:00.000-05:002017-02-22T13:45:06.546-05:00How about Some Friendly Competition -- FEEDBACK RequestedCarol and Henry, as well as Barry and I, have been enjoying a comfortable winter. Barry's maintenance spankings have continued, keeping him well mannered and behaved. He really seems to thrive on and love being spanked, especially if it is not a full blown punishments spanking (which he has seemed to learn how to avoid). The four of us have also been enjoying some fun role play situations together and are looking for new ideas to keep things spicy.<br />
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Barry recently suggested that we consider some type of friendly competition. He also suggested that a Trivia Pursuit game might be a good source of competition. We have all played that game years ago, but not recently. Also, none of us claim to be very good at it, so it seems like it would offer a reasonably level playing field. We all seem to be agreement on that, so now we are considering the make-up of the teams (such as couple vs couple or men vs. women) and what the prize should be.<br />
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Under serious consideration are:<br />
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<li>Men vs Women, with the losers having to completely submit to whatever the winners desire that evening. There would be no restrictions on what the winners could require or do, unless the spouse of a loser felt uncomfortable with something that was being required of his/her mate. For example, if the women are victorious, I could object to and block something that Carol wanted to do to Barry. If Barry objected to something, he could not say 'no' unless I felt it was inappropriate.</li>
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<li>Couple vs Couple, with the losing couple being required to completely submit to the winning couple. Again, there would be no restrictions unless a member of the winning couple felt uncomfortable with something his/her spouse was requiring of a member of the losing couple. For example, if Barry and I are victorious, Barry could object to something that I wanted to do to Henry or Carol. If they objected to something that I wanted to do, they could not say 'no' unless Barry felt it was inappropriate.</li>
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We have had several discussion about which competition would be the most fun, as well as about whether there should be any hard limitations about what the winners can require, especially with respect to sexual activities. At the moment, Carol and I would like some hard limits specified. However, Barry and Henry are comfortable with relying on the ability of their spouse's objections to keep things under control.</div>
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This has been an interesting exercise in finding a new way of raising the bar. Consequently, we have decided to share our thoughts and request feedback from our readers. We are not asking for a vote, but for thoughtful input that we want to consider before making our final decision.</div>
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-23386882914930456472017-02-05T16:21:00.001-05:002017-02-05T16:21:53.154-05:00An Interesting NightCarol and Henry were going to be away this past weekend. So we had to skip our regular Saturday night play date. However, as usual, Henry told us that we could use his playroom while they were gone. I didn't give it much thought, but Barry did. Last Thursday he shared with me that it has been a long time since I have had reason to "take him to task" for bad behavior, and that he has missed that. He then proposed that we have a role play concerning his inappropriate conduct. He suggested the following scenario:<br />
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<li>We play ourselves as a married couple in our current time frame</li>
<li>I have recently learned that he has recently seen a dominatrix/disciplinarian to fulfill his need for domestic discipline and some of his kinky sexual desires, even though I have been attempting to meet those needs</li>
<li>I have contacted that disciplinarian and talked with her about what she has done with Barry</li>
<li>Our scenario begins with Barry and I going to Henry's home to enjoy a playful evening in his playroom</li>
<li>Once we are there, I confront Barry with my knowledge about him seeing the dom/disciplinarian</li>
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It was clear to me that Barry knew that this scenario would push a lot of my buttons about him turning to someone else for his sexual needs. </div>
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After giving it considerable thought, I realized Barry really wanted an intense play time in Henry's playroom and I decided to make it happen. Without sharing any specific details about what would happen, I told Barry that I thought this was a wonderful scenario for us to enact. I suggested that we would go to Henry's playroom on Saturday night expecting a fun play time. However, I let him know that once we arrived, I would enact his scenario ... and warned him that he would be in for a long night. He quickly agreed.<br />
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When we arrived in Henry's downstairs play area I quickly became very serious with Barry and confronted him about seeing a dominatrix/disciplinarian. He tried to deny it, but he had no answer when I asked him to explain the recent large ATM cash withdrawal from our checking account. He eventually fessed up to what he'd done. I then let him know that I had talked with the woman and learned of the things he had asked her to do. I also let him know that I planned to punish him severely and then explore his wishes to see if he really liked them if performed for real by his wife. At this point I didn't let him know what I had learned from my conversation. I planned to incorporate a lot of things that I know fascinate Barry, some of which he has never experienced.<br />
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I began by ordering Barry to strip and join me in the bathroom. He arrived while I was preparing a two quart enema to administer. When I was ready, I sat on a wicker stool and took Barry over my lap, spanking him with my hand as I administered the full volume of the enema. When I was done, his bottom was starting to nicely redden and I inserted a butt plug into his anus so that he would have to retain the water for the next part of his punishment. I felt that he was nicely 'warmed up' for the punishment that was to come.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrwq9ukSwCtHdoCOFrm9IA3eyuT7fDaPpXvSdBt7FzjuAH_fa4Pc6A0_fsXwDgxuLQmqSei10-XU05QP6UG3kYfl8-h-XxoAflqUxGW1UM4K_3pph4uLsZeMQOTmiJ_i2IKW1e7ghKQIsl/s1600/121890334289_2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrwq9ukSwCtHdoCOFrm9IA3eyuT7fDaPpXvSdBt7FzjuAH_fa4Pc6A0_fsXwDgxuLQmqSei10-XU05QP6UG3kYfl8-h-XxoAflqUxGW1UM4K_3pph4uLsZeMQOTmiJ_i2IKW1e7ghKQIsl/s200/121890334289_2.jpg" width="200" /></a>I then took him into the room with the spanking bench and secured him to it, making sure his legs were spread and his genitals fully exposed. After teasing his ball sack a little bit and telling him how much I was going to enjoy administering a punishment spanking, I selected Henry's "licking stick" from his collection and showed it to Barry. I told him that this would be the first implement I would use to punish him for going behind my back to see a professional disciplinarian. I suspect that he was beginning to wonder what he had gotten himself into. I then began applying the wooden stick to his bottom in a methodical way, starting at the top of his buttocks and slowly working my way down to his upper thighs. Once I got to mid thigh, I began to slowly work my way back up, allowing each firm stroke to cover both sides of his bottom. I repeated this three times.<br />
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By this time, Barry was pleading with me to stop and to allow him to expel the enema. I agreed that this would be a good time to take a little break from his punishment and I would allow him to expel. As I released him from the bench, he immediately ran to the bathroom, where he remained for at least 15 minutes. When he returned, I ordered him back to the bench, where I secured him again, making sure he was again fully exposed. I then began to spank the head of his penis before selecting a riding crop to use to spank the inner area of his butt crack and his inner thighs, both of which were untouched by the licking stick. I did this for at least 15 minutes, before allowing Barry another short break, this time still secured to the bench.<br />
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I then located a butt plug designed to be connected to one of Henry's TENS (electrostimulation) units. After putting it in place and adjusting the stimulation level to something that was on the verge of Barry's comfort level, I selected my next punishment implement: this time a 2 inch wide leather strap. Again, I used it methodically, working up and down Barry's bottom, first from the left side and then from the right side. Barry was again pleading for me to stop. I gave him another break, on the bench, and then told him that he had one more implement to endure before I would consider him to be appropriately punished.<br />
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The last implement was a lexan paddle, which I know Barry hates. When I finished using it, we had a very good discussion about what Barry should do if he feels a need have more intense or different punishments or sexual activities. Barry agreed that the answer is not to seek it elsewhere, but to come to me.<br />
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I then told Barry that I was going to provide him with the sexual stimulation and teasing things that he asked the professional to provide. However, I added that I would not do these things for just a few minutes. "You're in for a long night", I explained. I then secured Barry to the gynecological exam chair/table. His arms and legs were secured and his genitals and anus were completely exposed to my whims. By the time he was secured, he was fully erect and obviously very excited. I then asked him to remind me about the things he asked the dominatrix to do to him. He had a hard time telling me his fantasies, but with the threat of the riding crop being used on his genitals, he managed to share lots of fantasies with me. Then the fun began.<br />
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During the next two hours, Barry experienced tease and denial in many ways, including nipple clamps, electrostimulation of his penis, the Venus 2000 penis pump (at a low level for an extended period of time), being pegged as our eyes locked on each other (but during which he was unable to touch his penis and I purposely didn't). When I finally allowed him to climax, he exploded in a way that I had never witnessed before. His entire body then immediately went limp.<br />
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We took a little time to talk about what had happened as we cleaned up the playroom and equipment. The ride home was mostly silent, which allowed Barry some time to recover. The wonderful part of it was that when we arrived home, he was ready to appropriately express his gratitude for what he considered to be a wonderful evening. As we got into bed, he immediately got into position to orally worship me and slowly did so in a beautiful way that allowed me to reach a wonderful climax.<br />
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Who say sex can't get better as we age? It just takes each party to be willing to grow and give.<br />
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-17577455765526414422017-01-24T14:36:00.001-05:002017-01-24T14:36:04.266-05:00Play Time with Carol and HenryI am so glad that Carol took the time to share the details of the beginning period of her relationship with Henry. I was very proud of the way she took charge of the relationship and it is wonderful to see the two of them enjoying life together. I've held off on posting any details from our current activities until Carol finished telling her story. However, now I'll get back to posting and I am hopeful that Carol will also post some current things from their relationship.<br />
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Since Christmas, Carol, Henry, Barry and I have been attempting to get together each weekend for some sort of kinky play time. It usually involves some sort of role play, but sometimes it is just real life. We decided that we would take turns coming up with an idea or theme. The girls pick what we will do one week, and the boys pick the next week, etc. So far, it has worked out quite well and all of our events have been enjoyed by all.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBMrI9QFMehglPTBNbI2NXv2tJ5ULhmr4gX8wmXocngMEQHV4onaZCNJ0fa9VMPEjsvGGSAO3TdQuIkD3SzCkGqGj-e0Zl6DbIX7VNKnb7YVB5Jav-8XzZcnx_G4LylBoFKvajHZvGbrPV/s1600/V597695+%25281%2529.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBMrI9QFMehglPTBNbI2NXv2tJ5ULhmr4gX8wmXocngMEQHV4onaZCNJ0fa9VMPEjsvGGSAO3TdQuIkD3SzCkGqGj-e0Zl6DbIX7VNKnb7YVB5Jav-8XzZcnx_G4LylBoFKvajHZvGbrPV/s200/V597695+%25281%2529.jpg" width="150" /></a>Last Saturday it Carol's and my turn to plan the activity. We decided that it would be a real life event and the four of us would go shopping together before coming home to play. We started out at Victoria's Secret with a goal of selecting some sexy lingerie for each man. We each ended up selecting the bustier shown. I picked black for Barry, with black stockings, and Carol selected Cherry Red with white stockings for Henry. However, before we made our selections, we had great fun searching for and viewing various options. Of course, we made no secret of what we were doing. Upon entering the store Carol and I picked out the youngest and sweetest looking sales representative and told her that we were looking for something very sexy for our men. We then took her to Barry and Henry and we began the search. We received many stares from other customers as we held up different items and colors to our men as we tried to make a decision. It was very amusing to see how embarrassed they were.<br />
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Afterwards we went to the adult novelty store that Carol had previously taken Henry. Our goal there was to purchase some silicone breast forms for each man to use in his new bustier. We made sure that the customers in that store were well aware of what we were doing, which was very easy to do because the store was quite busy on a late Saturday morning. After selecting the breast forms we decided to look at some new paddle options and made the men bend over so we could test various options on them. That brought some cheers and words of encouragement from a number of the customers. We ended up purchasing a very nice, thin hardwood paddle that is very stingy. <br />
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When we arrived home, we had fun dressing the boys up in their new lingerie. When we removed their chastity cages it was very clear that they were enjoying it as much as we were. After testing out our new paddle on the bottoms, Carol and I came up with the idea of having a little contest. We would each tease their genitals with the intention of getting them to ejaculate. They had to try to hold off as long as they could. The first to ejaculate would lose the contest. The prize to the winner would be a blow job. The loser would be get a dose of the new paddle. To make things as fair as possible, Carol and I agreed on some rules of engagement regarding how we would tease the men. There would be no stroking of the penis. Touching could only be with our finger tips, open palms, and their new panties. Verbal teasing and tantalizing would be allowed.<br />
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They each did very well. However, after a little over fifteen minutes, Henry finally succumbed and ejaculated. Not surprisingly, Barry very much enjoyed accepting his prize from me (since it has been quite some time since I have offered him that treat) and Henry attested to the effectiveness of the new paddle.<br />
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Susan Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-87080159078106354722017-01-18T11:30:00.001-05:002017-01-18T11:31:07.833-05:00CAROL'S TURN: Role of a Female Mentor<br />
In a comment to my most recent post, Kate asked: <br />
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I am definitely not a naturally dominant woman. However, I have come to enjoy using whatever dominant traits I possess. During my first marriage, which ended with my husband's much too early death, we never played in this way at all. I think it is safe to say that female domination never entered either one of our heads.</div>
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However, after my husbands death I had the opportunity to observe my sister Susan as she explored domination and spanking with her husband. I found myself very interested in her actions and their results. I was especially amazed by the impact it had on her husband Barry and the new life it brought to their marriage.</div>
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When I decided to explore the possibility of a new partner, Susan was very helpful to me in her willingness to open up more about her new lifestyle with Barry. She continues to be willing to share openly and that is extremely helpful. I could not do what I am currently doing without her support and guidance.</div>
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So, in answer to Kate's questions: Yes, I believe a female mentor and role model is invaluable to anyone who wants to explore this area with her partner.</div>
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-4327460612230662202017-01-12T16:24:00.002-05:002017-01-12T16:49:09.306-05:00CAROL'S TURN: Taking control of Henry - continued<div style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;">
<a href="https://img0.etsystatic.com/059/0/8431808/il_570xN.730381180_gl0n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><br /><img border="0" height="200" src="https://img0.etsystatic.com/059/0/8431808/il_570xN.730381180_gl0n.jpg" width="133" /></a>When we arrived back at Henry's home we immediately went to his basement playroom. I quickly reminded him that he had earned a good paddling for not having shaved himself as I had directed. He actually acted like he was looking forward to it and asked me if I'd like him to be on the spanking bench for it. I said that I would very much like that, and I directed him to completely strip. I then secured him to the bench. I then selected a medium sized wooden paddle and began to apply it to his backside. I started out rather lightly, but continued a crescendo until it was really popping of his red bottom. By the time I finished, it was clear that he was feeling it, although he was still semi-rigid. I decided to pause at that point and move on to my next planned task --- shaving him. After asking Henry if he had a beard trimmer and learning its location, I assembled the tools needed to shave everything accessible from the position he was now secured. It allowed excellent access to his bottom, scrotum, and inner thighs. It took a while, but once the task was completed, I liberally applied an alcohol based after shave that I found with his shaving gear and then returned to using the paddle again. This time I really got his attention and his erection quickly disappeared. <br />
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I then advised Henry that I wanted to move him to the gynecological exam table. After securing him with his legs spread, I proceeded to shave his front side. It took a while, but I thoroughly enjoyed having such complete control over him and watch his discomfort as removed the hair from his waist to mid thigh. He really looked quite cute and I made sure to tease him about how smooth and clean he was going to be. He must have enjoyed it because he remained hard the entire time, which made the shaving of his penis much easier. When I was finished I advised him that I expected him to continue shaving this area at least once a week for me. I also warned him that if he failed to do so, I would use more than just a paddle on him.<br />
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I decided it was then an appropriate time to introduce Henry to his new chastity cage. Somehow I think he thought it was going to be a bit of a joke. However, I now clearly let him now that if he wanted to have a serious relationship with me he had to turn over control of his manhood and stop getting all of his sexual pleasure from his hand pussy. I explained how effective it had been for Susan and Barry and that this was not negotiable to me. He decided to agree and I proceeded to install his new device for the first time. It was a challenge at first due to his erection. But, thump to the underside of his erection from my fore finger snapped from my thumb (a trick I learned many years ago from a fellow nursing student) quickly reduced the problem.<br />
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I then asked Henry if he had ever orally pleasured a woman to orgasm and learned that this was not a skill he possessed. So, we moved to the sofa in his downstairs office for his first lesson. I was pleased to realize that Henry was a very quick study. He was also pleased to learn that pleasuring a woman provides similar returns. He experienced the first removal of his chastity device to be pleasured (and, of course, having it re-installed afterwards).<br />
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We decided to meet again in two or three days. I thought that was an appropriate first length of time for Henry to be locked up. I also reminded Henry that we had one more new toy that we haven't explored.<br />
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As we cuddled in each other's arms at the end, we both agreed that it had been a wonderful day together. It was very clear to me that I needed to take charge of Henry and I was also very pleased at how he accepted this new control in his life. As I look back on this now, months later, I realize how critical that day was in the development of our relationship. I firmly believe that if I had not taken charge we would not currently be planning for our upcoming wedding. We would also not be enjoying the deep relationship we have with Susan and Barry as a foursome.<br />
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Susan has purposely not been posting while I have been sharing these beginning stages of my relationship with Henry. I now hope we can get back to sharing more about all of us.<br />
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I also want to express my appreciation to all of you who have warmly welcomed and appreciated my sharing. This has been a new experience for me. It is not easy to share so much about a very private part of my life. Thank you everyone.<br />
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-67556437891183122562017-01-08T15:49:00.001-05:002017-02-22T13:09:38.656-05:00CAROL'S TURN: Taking control of HenryIn my last post, I didn't share everything that happened at the end of our play session. Henry showed me another room in his basement. It was the room designed to be the bedroom for the in-law apartment. However, it now contains some very interesting furniture, which Susan has already written about in a previous post (<a href="http://spankingmarriage.blogspot.com/2016/10/henrys-playroom.html" target="_blank">Henry's Playroom</a>). Seeing this playroom for the first time made me realize how kinky and submissive Henry must be. At the end of this play session, Henry also asked me why I didn't make him masturbate this time. That made me realize that Henry had yet to make any effort to provide me with sexual pleasure. This previously unshared information is what made me tell Henry that our next session would have to be "real" and would be completely controlled by me. I realized that unless I took control of Henry, our relationship would always be one-sided to provide him with sexual pleasure.<br />
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During the following week I spoke with Susan several times and made plans for my next 'date' with Henry. Susan was very supportive and helpful, as she always is. She also shared some good ideas that I hadn't thought of. On Friday evening I called Henry and asked him if he'd like to play on Saturday morning. He said that would be nice, so I told him that I would pick him up at 10 AM for us to go shopping together. He sounded disappointed, so I shared with him that it would be a shopping trip for new toys we could play with. That got him very interested, so I dropped my first real surprise on him. I told him that I expected him to shave his genitals and butt before I picked him up. He started to object until I reminded him that this was going to be a 'real' play session, not a role-play. And, that what we do the next day was going to be completely up to me. He hesitantly agreed.<br />
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I arrived at Henry's home at 10 AM sharp the next morning. He invited me in for coffee. I said I'd come in for a minute, but I didn't need any coffee. Once in the house, I directed Henry to show me his 'pecker' (that is a word he likes to use). When he asked why?, I told him that I wanted to see if he had followed my directions. I quickly saw that he had not shaved and informed him that his failure was going to cost him a very sore butt. He tried to make excuses about not having time, but I told him that I never want to hear excuses from him or his punishment will be worse.<br />
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When we left the house, I drove, and Henry wanted to know where we were going. I simply shared with him that he would find out when we arrived. Our destination was an up-scale adult novelty and lingerie store about a half hour drive away. I suspected that Henry knows it, but didn't know for sure. I had visited it during the previous week as I was planning this date. I wanted to see if they carried the types of toys I had in mind. They did and I also had chance to have a candid talk with the woman who owns the store with her husband. I let her know what I was looking for and what I hoped would happen to embarrass Henry as we shopped. She loved my ideas and was willing to help me. She also agreed with my thought that Saturday morning would be a busy time with many customers present to help add to Henry's embarrassment.<br />
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Henry seemed surprised when I pulled into the parking lot. When I asked him if he had ever been here he claimed that he had not. However, when we walked in the door, the owner with whom I had met greeted him by name! I could tell by the look on her face that she had not idea that it was Henry that I was planning to bring.<br />
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I started the conversation by letting her know that Henry and I were newly dating and hoped to find some appropriate sexual aide and play things to make our dates more exciting. I also expressed surprise that she new Henry by name. She quietly shared with me that Henry has been a frequent customer for many years. She also openly shared with both of us that she would be happy to help us find whatever is appropriate.<br />
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I looked around the store and realized that there were four other customers in the store. Two individual men and a couple. I didn't make any attempt to keep my voice low when I began to share with the owner what we were looking for. I started out by sharing that I was interested in buying some sexy panties for Henry to wear. I couldn't help by add that Henry seems to be fascinated with panties, so I want him to wear them 24/7 after we shave his pecker and ass. Henry began to shrink into the woodwork! And I couldn't help but see the other customers react to what they heard.<br />
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The owner then ushered us into the lingerie section and made several recommendations. I also found some options that I liked and asked Henry what he found to be sexy. I also asked the owner if she had a dressing room where Henry could try things on. She assured me that they did, but they Henry must keep his own underpants on when he tries things on. She also shared that their dressing rooms were very private and that I was welcome to join him there. I then directed Henry to pick out six items to try on. As we proceeded to the dressing room, I could feel the eyes of the other customers watching us. When we got into the dressing room, Henry asked me what I thought I was doing. I shared with him that I was providing a real life experience of the things that I think he fantasizes and masturbates about. When I pressed him, he admitted that I was right. I then told him that he can call it quits anytime he wants. However, I added that if he does so, our relationship would be over.<br />
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When we returned to the store front I noticed that more customers had arrived. I took that opportunity to hold up the six pair of panties and advise the owner that Henry will take all of them. I then added that I couldn't wait to throw out all of his tighty whitey jockey shorts. That quickly got the attention of the newly arrived customers.<br />
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After leaving the panties on the front counter, I asked the owner if she carries any chastity devices. I added, loud enough for some of the other customers to hear, that I need to find a way to control Henry's need to masturbate. Henry immediately pulled me aside and whispered in my ear "What are you doing?". I simply responded that we had just had this conversation in the dressing room. I reminded him that he can call it quits any time. I also reminded him that if he continues we will return home with a number of new toys and ways to explore our relationship. We continued.<br />
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The owner took us to an area where she had multiple options of chastity cages. She initially showed us one that was obviously designed for a small penis. Henry seemed quite pleased when I immediately shared in a loud voice that it was much too small for Henry's pecker. We then worked to pick out something that was more appropriate size-wise for Henry. But, I also couldn't help sharing loudly enough for most customers to hear that I was concerned about "comfort", because Henry would be wearing it 24/7. After reviewing the various options, I let Henry pick the one he wanted to wear. Of course, his choice would have been nothing :-).<br />
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After the chastity device was added to the panties on the front counter, I shared with the owner that "we" would like to purchase a quality strap-on belt and dildo. I could see several customers' heads turn as I made this request and I'm sure that Henry saw them as well. He turned to me and mouthed the word "please". However, I continued. The owner suggested that we first look at dildos and we had a lengthy discussion about size. We settled on buying two dildos, one about the size of Henry's penis and one a reasonable bit larger. We then worked on a belt to hold them, focusing on my comfort and how securely the belt would hold the dildo as I used it on Henry. He continued to be mortified about what other customers were hearing. I'm sure he was also mortified for the owner to be learning all of this information about him. I couldn't help bu share with Henry how excited I was to look forward to using these dildos after seeing his collection of photos on his PC about pegging. I was so happy that it would excite him. I have to admit that I was also aware of the reaction of the growing number of customers in the store. No one was leaving and everyone seemed to be staying close to us in the store in order to hear what we were saying.<br />
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At this point, I asked Henry if there was anything else he would like to look for in the store. He quickly replied that there was not. As the owner began to check us out, I left Henry at the register alone to pay for the items we had selected. I returned just as he signed the credit card slip. I thanked the owner for being so helpful and let her know that we would be back. She returned a very big and kind smile as she shared that she loves to be of service.<br />
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When we got back to the car, I asked Henry how he felt about our little shopping trip. I was very pleased to hear him say he loved it, but it was extremely embarrassing. Further conversation confirmed that the embarrassment was OK and loved, as well. When we discussed what to do next, it was very clear that we were both ready to head to Henry's home and play - even when I reminded him that he was still going to be punished for not having shaved. I also let him know that I now planned to shave him myself. I heard no argument from Henry.<br />
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So --- I will pick up here with my next sharing.<br />
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CarolSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-4507207520552266982017-01-02T16:30:00.000-05:002017-01-02T16:30:10.349-05:00CAROL'S TURN: Getting to Know Henry - continuedSeveral days after that first play time, Henry and I met for coffee again. It didn't take him long to ask if I'd like to play again. When I agreed, he invited me to his home, if I was comfortable with coming there. By that time I was feeling OK about it, and I agreed.<br />
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Henry suggested we do another role play, this time using an office setting. He explained that he has a large home office with a large desk and sitting area that would provide a good setting. He also suggested that I be his boss who has discovered that he has a large amount of pornography on his work computer and has been masturbating in his office. Finally, she said that I could bring whatever toys and implements I'd like, but that he has a large collection from which I can pick things to use on him. It was at this time that I began to realize how deeply Henry was involved with spanking and kinky sexual activities.<br />
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When I arrived at Henry's home on the designated evening, we first sat in his sun room and had a cup of tea. I think he was trying to make sure I was comfortable being in his home. He then took me to his home office, which is located in the basement. He explained that the basement was designed as an in-law's apartment and contains a living area (which is now his office with a sitting area as part of it), a bedroom with attached bathroom and a small kitchenette.<br />
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I suggested that the setting for the role play be that I have called Henry into my office to discuss a serious matter. He would arrive, not knowing what issue was to be discussed. He was agreeable to this plan. I then asked him to show me where the pornography is located on his computer and where he keeps his spanking toys. After he dis so, I then asked Henry to leave the room and return in 15 minutes for his appointment with me. I thought that would give me sufficient time to review the type of pornography contained on his computer and make some decisions about spanking implements. Before he left, Henry shared with me that I could spank him harder than what I previously did. He told me that he actually enjoys quite a hard spanking. I thanked him for sharing that. I then asked him how he felt about being completely submissive to a woman. He provided the answer that I expected, which confirmed my preliminary plan to step things up a bit during this play time with Henry. My brief review of the porn folders on his PC also confirmed the extent of his kinky interests, especially spanking.<br />
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When Henry returned, I put on my stern and serious face and directed him to take a seat in the chair to the side of my desk. I then calmly, but sternly advised him that our IT office had discovered a serious amount of pornography on his computer and a history of him visiting pornographic websites while he was working. He first tried to deny everything, but quickly realized it wasn't working. I then told him that we have security cameras in everyone's office and asked him if he had been doing anything in his office that he wouldn't want anyone to see. He played the role quite well. He stammered and hemmed and hawed and eventually said "no". But he then asked why I brought that up. I just said "I think you know" and added that it was interesting to watch a man masturbate.<br />
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I then suggested to Henry that we needed to talk seriously about his situation. I explained that I should fire him. I quickly added that I really didn't want to do that because he was such a productive employee. I also added that I was willing to find an alternative solution. He was very open to that, so I explained that I also enjoy the kinky sexual aspects of life. I offered that, based upon the porn on his computer, he would like to be spanked by a woman. I suggested that I would not fire him if he was willing to submit to corporal punishment from me for this situation and any future work related performance issues. Henry quickly agreed.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDjk0TNPFPG2f3DN1-xSE9Yqe4ty4jtHpfsOKkj89Hy0XM0uvPZxzSn-2jTsGNv9V4oKOmnpu0XEPmxfEdl9ePZo34jqkIfYH-dW3tKSFwoQfddSkMCfDTnkjVwR9TGVhTdnGXLJMfVJkR/s1600/179_1000.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="135" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDjk0TNPFPG2f3DN1-xSE9Yqe4ty4jtHpfsOKkj89Hy0XM0uvPZxzSn-2jTsGNv9V4oKOmnpu0XEPmxfEdl9ePZo34jqkIfYH-dW3tKSFwoQfddSkMCfDTnkjVwR9TGVhTdnGXLJMfVJkR/s200/179_1000.jpg" width="200" /></a>I then informed Henry that I would start out with a prolonged spanking and asked him to tell me his favorite position. Since he had a folder labeled "spanking positions" on his PC, I suggested that he show me his favorite. This is what he selected. He then showed me a video of the same gentleman being spanked in this position. It was quite interesting. He bottom was thoroughly spanked, but so was the head of his penis and the tender areas around his anus and lower bottom. It was quite a spanking.<br />
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After making Henry strip, I placed him in this very position and thoroughly spanked him in the same way. I was amazed to see that he remained hard through out the entire spanking. That made me decide to give him a very hard spanking with an implement. I suggested that he provide me with his favorite spanking implement. I was a bit surprised when asked me to use a leather sandal that I was wearing (this was back in warmer weather). I quickly agreed. After turning him back over my knee, I proceeded to apply the heavy soled sandal quite vigorously to his bottom. This time his erection disappeared and he did a lot of squirming and begging me to stop.<br />
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We eventually retreated back to his sunroom for a glass of wine, which gave us time to discuss what had taken place and our budding relationship. We each agreed that we would like to continue. However, I suggested that our next play time should be a bit different. I shared with Henry that it should not be a role play, but something real. And I added that it should be completely controlled by me. (I wanted to see just how far he was willing to go with giving me control). Henry quickly agreed and we decided that I would get in touch with him when I had made some plans.<br />
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If Susan wants me to do so, I'll continue to share how our relationship developed.<br />
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Carol<br />
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-49804427593927175742016-12-13T19:12:00.002-05:002016-12-13T19:14:28.553-05:00CAROL'S TURN: Getting to Know HenryHi Everyone,<br />
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Susan has recently suggested that I contribute to her blog to share a bit more about my relationship with Henry. I have never tried to write in a journal or share things about myself, so this is a huge challenge to me. But I thought I could give it a try and see how things go. I realize Susan has shared some things about Henry and me, but I thought it might be best if I start from the beginning.<br />
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I have to thank Susan for introducing me the the kinky life she and Barry enjoy. I would have never explored this area if were not for them. And, I would have never met Henry. I met him through a personal ad he placed in FetLife. It was totally unlike me to look or respond to something like this, but I'm very glad I did. Henry is in his early fifties and has never been married. But he has led a very interesting life and has a very kind and gentle spirit about him. He is also very kinky and submissive, which are two traits I have come to appreciate in a man since my husband passed away at too early an age.<br />
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I ended up meeting Henry for coffee at a local Starbucks one afternoon. We ended up spending three hours over coffee. It was amazing how much we had in common. After two vanilla dates, we were still enjoying each other, and Henry asked me if I would consider exploring his kinky side with him. When I agreed, we decided that he would come to my home and explore a simple role play. I asked him what he would like it to be. Without hesitation he shared that he would like to play the role of an older teenage boy (17 or 18) and have me play the role of his new stepmother. He suggested that our role play begin with his stepmother confronting him with evidence that he has been peeping on his teenage stepsister and has been borrowing her panties and using them to masturbate. He indicated that I could punish him in anyway I thought appropriate, and even indicated that I could make him masturbate in front of me if I so desired. (That was my first clue that Henry might be overly attracted to masturbation.)<br />
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We set up a date and time and I suggested to Henry that he could bring a long a few of his favorite spanking toys for me to consider using to punish him. I also planned to borrow a few things from Susan. Henry arrived on the designated evening dressed appropriately casually for a teenaged boy. I was dressed appropriately maturely. After some normal small talk, including Henry showing me the three spanking implements he brought along, I suggested that we start in the family room where Henry would be watching a sports event on TV. Henry made himself comfortable with the TV turned on. I shortly appeared and began to confront him about his behavior. I informed him that his step-sister (Molly) had told me that he had walked in on her in the bathroom without knocking on two separate occasions and that several pair of her panties had recently gone missing. Henry, of course denied everything, but didn't have much to say when I produced three pair of Molly's panties that I had found under his bed. He also had no good answer when I asked him to explain what appeared to be cum stains on the panties. His sole response was that he didn't understand what I was talking about.<br />
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I finally got to the point where I informed him that it was very clear to me what he had done and that I planned to punish him appropriately. I then proceeded with requiring him to remove his shirt and trousers and come stand before me. I then slowly lowered his underwear as I continued to scold him about his behavior. I also talked about how I was going to spank him. As I did this, Henry became quite aroused. I used this as a reason to justify that he needed to be punished.<br />
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I ended up turning Henry over my knee and giving him a very prolonged spanking with the implements he brought (a ruler, hairbrush, and a small wooden paddle). I decided not to use the items I had selected ... because by the time I used his selections at a moderate level, his bottom was nicely red. I also wanted to keep this first meeting at a moderate level and made a conscious decision to not make him masturbate. There will be time for that later.<br />
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I was also very much aware of the fact that Henry still had an erection when we finished.<br />
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CarolSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-70262218142486172652016-12-03T14:28:00.001-05:002016-12-03T14:28:35.861-05:00News FlashI realize it has been over a month since I last posted ... again. Life has been busy, including some fun events together with Carol and Henry. However, I just haven't had the time and energy to appropriately share them. I promise to do so soon. I think the election results took a lot out of me.<br />
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However, this weekend I have some exciting news that must be shared. Carol and Henry are going to get married. I know it may seem a bit quick, but their relationship has developed very nicely and they both are extremely happy together. The wedding won't take place until Spring and it will most likely be a very intimate affair for family and a few very close friends. In the meantime, Carol is in the process of moving into Henry's house while she puts hers on the market. I am extremely happy for both of them.<br />
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And, a second bit of exciting news: I have convinced Carol to try her hand at sharing some of her thoughts about her relationship with Henry in this blog. I suggested that she start her own blog, but she is not game for that. However, she has expressed a willingness to periodically write and share along with me in this blog. I think she will bring another perspective to how we deal with the needs of our subbie hubbies :-).<br />
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So ... stay tuned for a "Carol's Turn" posting in the near future.<br />
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SusanSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-55329010292219348382016-10-26T14:38:00.001-04:002016-10-26T14:38:06.215-04:00Henry's PlayroomHenry was away last weekend, but suggested to Carol that she introduce Barry and me to his playroom while he would be gone. He thought it might be easier for Barry if the three of us explored and tried out some of his toys without him being part of the process. Barry and I thought that was very kind of him and liked to idea, so we accepted Carol's invitation to visit it Sunday afternoon. We were each very amazed and the three of us had a fun time.<br />
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As I mentioned in a previous post, Henry had been seeing professional doms and disciplinarians prior to meeting Carol. He got nervous about going to their facilities, so he decided to purchase the equipment he enjoyed most and set up his own playroom, with the understanding that the doms and disciplinarians would come to his home.<br />
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His playroom is part of an unused in-law apartment in his basement. As you enter the apartment from the outside or a staircase in the home, you enter what would have been the living room. Henry now uses that room as his home office and a sitting area. The office area serves an office setting for appropriate role plays; and the sitting area provides a lovely domestic setting for OTK spanking, light domination, etc. As we entered the room, my eyes were immediately drawn to a two foot heavy oak ruler on the top of the desk, as well as a crock sitting on the floor in the corner containing several canes.<br />
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What was originally designed to be the bedroom had been converted to an exercise room by the previous owner (complete with mirrors on the walls and a flat screen wall mounted TV).. Henry has now converted this room to a very tasteful room containing his 'heavy' furniture. This currently includes a wonderful spanking bench and an old gynecological exam chair that he purchased on eBay. It also contains other serious equipment such as his collection of paddles and straps; as well as a Venus 2000 penis milking device and electrical stimulation toys.<br />
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Off the former bedroom is a larger bathroom, which contains a large walk-in shower and significant floor space. The space allows for fairly large wicker bench (2 x 3') and a rolling medical stand that holds a medical grade two quart enema bag. There is also a small cabinet containing significant equipment and toys that would most likely be used in the bathroom.<br />
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The facility is quite impressive. After giving us a tour, Carol asked us if we'd like to play. She explained that Henry has taught her how to use most of the equipment, including the Venus 2000 and electrical stimulation toys. We quickly took her up on the offer.<br />
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<a href="https://img0.etsystatic.com/059/0/8431808/il_570xN.730381180_gl0n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://img0.etsystatic.com/059/0/8431808/il_570xN.730381180_gl0n.jpg" width="133" /></a><a href="https://img1.etsystatic.com/053/0/8431808/il_570xN.744401217_l8q6.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="Heavy Duty steel spanking bench" border="0" height="145" src="https://img1.etsystatic.com/053/0/8431808/il_570xN.744401217_l8q6.jpg" style="cursor: move;" width="200" /></a>We started out with the spanking bench. Henry didn't want us to take any photos in his home, which we respect. However, Barry found his bench on line. Carol didn't waste any time in getting Barry secured to it. Once Barry was on it, I fell in love with it. It presented his bottom in a wonderful position for spanking and his legs were spread quite wide, so it allowed options for many other types of play. Carol was also very nice to make sure that his genitals were pulled back and fully exposed as she secured him to the bench. I had toyed with buying a bench similar to this a couple of years ago, but was afraid to have it in our home. It is truly a fun piece of furniture.<br />
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<a href="https://rearz.ca/images/paddle.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://rearz.ca/images/paddle.jpg" width="200" /></a>I wanted to keep our play fun, but I also wanted to try some of Henry's toys that were new to me. I started with a wonderful bamboo paddle. It was over a foot long and less than a 1/4 inch thick. I suspected that it would provide a lot of sting ... and it did! If anyone remembers the "SpankingMyHusband" blog by Deirdre, you may recall that she used to secure her husband, Evan, to a bench and then spank him for a predetermined period of time. I decided to use that technique with Barry. I announced that he would receive a five minute paddling with the bamboo paddle. It was then that Carol suggested we attach some electrodes to his penis and use the electrical stimulation device to keep him excited. So, with his penis undergoing constant stimulation, I began to paddle him at a reasonable intensity for five minutes. I managed to maintain a wonderful balance of making him feel the paddle, but never losing his erection.<br />
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I then selected what appeared to be a very old leather belt from Henry's collection of implements. It was about two inches wide and very soft and supple. However, it was clear that it had a different impact on Barry ... less sting, but definitely an impact.<br />
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It was then that Carol asked if I had ever used a cane on Barry. I had not, and I heard Barry grown and softly say "Please, no". Carol went out to the office and returned with a selection of canes. She and I chose a relatively thin one and she asked if I would like her to demonstrate how to use it. I agreed and she gave Barry several light strokes as she demonstrated proper technique to me. I took over and started out quite gradually. However, when I finished, I had left three very pronounce stripes across the lower portion of his bottom. By this time, even with the electrical stimulation, Barry was quite soft.<br />
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We then discussed other possibilities with the spanking bench, especially how easy it would be to make a spit roast out of Barry with each of using strapons. However, we decided to leave that for a later time. I was much to anxious to get Barry on the exam chair.<br />
<br />
<a href="http://img.medicalexpo.com/images_me/photo-mg/90169-9252685.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="Urological examination chair / gynecological / electric / height-adjustable Femi 1, Femi 2 Formed" border="0" height="200" src="http://img.medicalexpo.com/images_me/photo-mg/90169-9252685.jpg" width="166" /></a>Again, this is not a photo of the actual chair. Henry had purchased his on ebay. It was a bit older, but it was similar to this photo. It had arm rests to which Barry's arms could be secured; and leg rests that spread his legs. It also left his genital area and anus completely exposed. Once Barry was secured in it, I began play with him and tease him. His erection came back to life. Carol then showed me how to use the electrical stimulation toy with a large butt plug that would then pulsate in his bottom. Since the chair's height is adjustable, Carol also pointed out how easy it would be to peg him and be able to watch his facial expressions and play with his genitals ... all at the same time. Again ... something for a future play time.<br />
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<a href="http://venusformen.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/Venus2000-300x175.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="116" src="https://venusformen.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/Venus2000-300x175.png" width="200" /></a>Carol then showed me how to use the Venus 2000 penis pump. She installed the cylinder over his penis and set it to slowly pump him. She then suggested that we go have a cup of tea and talk about Henry's play room. I agreed; and we left Barry with a butt plug pulsating in his bum hole and his penis being slowly pumped. We enjoyed the tea in the office, so we could be aware of Barry's sounds of arousal and frustration. When we returned to him about a half hour later, Barry was clearly in need of relief. Carol then showed me how to turn up the Venus 2000 to a rate that quickly brought him to orgasm. However, Carol was not showing any interest in quickly turning it off. Consequently, it continued to pump on Barry's spent organ, which caused him a deal of frustration. It was then that my mind began thinking about all of the things we could do in this playroom with both Barry and Henry.<br />
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We subsequently released Barry from his ordeal and we all enjoyed a glass of wine together as we debriefed and talked about Henry's wonderful playroom.<br />
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Susan<br />
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-75787167774177170602016-10-06T14:25:00.002-04:002016-10-06T14:25:49.433-04:00The Rest of the Story<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;">
I met with Carol Monday afternoon and we had a good discussion about
Sunday evening’s events. I’ll share more
about that meeting in a subsequent post.
However, I have decided to share what took place with Barry and me on
Monday evening. I initially didn’t think
I would share this, but have subsequently decided that I should.</div>
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Even after my meeting with Carol, I was still dealing with my feelings
of jealousy towards her because of Barry spanking her. I was convinced that the reason he had such
an erection while spanking her was because it was her bottom. I was sure that spanking me would not have
generated the same response. Carol
tried to reassure me that Barry will have the same reaction from spanking me as
he did from spanking her. She even
challenged me to try it and see if I can prove her wrong. It only made matters worse when I asked her
about being shaved ‘down there’ and why she started doing it. She told me about how sexy it makes her feel
and how much Henry loves it.</div>
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So, I came home from Carol’s house feeling even worse than before. Later Monday night, I ended up taking her
advice. When we were getting ready for
bed, Barry kept asking me what was wrong, but I couldn’t tell him. Finally, I turned to him and said, “Darling,
would you spank me like you spanked Carol last night?” He got an astonished look on his face and
asked me if I was kidding. When I said I
was dead serious, he replied “You don’t know how much I would love to do just
that.”</div>
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I told Barry that I would meet him in the family room in a few
minutes. I stayed in the bedroom and changed
into the outfit I wore Sunday night.
When I entered the family room, Barry was sitting on a dining chair in
the middle of the room, wearing only his pajama bottoms, waiting for me. After calling me over to his side, he told me
how much he loved the outfit I was wearing.
He then told me that I had been a very naughty girl lately and deserved
a good spanking. He then gently took me
over his knee and started going through the same routine he did with
Carol. It didn’t take long for me to
feel his tent pole poking my lower abdomen.
At that point I began to relax.
By the time my panties had been lowered, his tent pole felt huge and he
also began to put his fingers between my legs and search for my clitoris. It was then that I asked him if he would like
me to shave ‘down there’ like Carol does.
His response was an enthusiastic “That would be very sexy and I would
love it if you feel comfortable doing it.”</div>
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At this point I began to feel extremely emotional and upset with myself
for having let jealousy take over my life.
I started to shed some tears of joy and frustration all mixed into
one. Barry immediately sensed that
something was different and he asked me what was wrong. I then shared with him about the jealousy I
had been feeling and how guilty I felt about it. And, I asked him to spank me much harder to
remind me to never let jealousy take over again. He then began to do just that. Before long, I was lying over his lap,
quietly sobbing, as he spanked much more firmly and deliberately. It was a wonderful feeling. When he finally finished, he sat me on his lap
and hugged me and told me how much he loved me and how sexy I was.</div>
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After a few moments, I slid off his lap onto my knees in front of him
and gently exposed his rock hard penis.
“Mmmm, no ED tonight”, I joked.
He smiled back as I lowered my head and began to lick his tent
pole. It wasn’t long before we returned
to the bedroom. Barry got on his back on
the bed and guided my pelvis over his face where we could then offer each other
mutual oral pleasure. </div>
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I think that is more than enough details. Suffice it to say that it was a wonderful
evening which took away my feelings of jealousy and my guilt for having them.</div>
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Now you know "the rest of the story"!</div>
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Susan</div>
Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-87155715266824604632016-10-03T13:30:00.004-04:002016-10-03T13:30:24.583-04:00The Masturbation Competition<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;">
Last night was the masturbation competition between Henry and
Barry. We decided to have dinner at our
house. When Carol and Henry arrived it
was clear that Carol had dressed for the occasion. She was wearing a very snug short dress that
left nothing to the imagination about her shapely derrière. I could also tell that she was wearing a
garter belt and stockings underneath it.
I also dressed in what I thought would be appropriate to administer a
disciplinary hairbrush spanking to Barry (since I expected him to lose, I
thought I would dress in a way that he enjoys when being spanked). I was wearing a snug black pencil skirt and a
fitted white blouse. I was also wearing my
sexiest white bra that reveals significant cleavage along with a garter belt
and stockings. It is Barry’s favorite
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<i><u>The Challenge<o:p></o:p></u></i></div>
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We enjoyed a relaxing informal dinner, after which we retired to the
family room and lit a fire in the fireplace.
Carol said that she was sure both men were wondering why they had been
allowed to not wear a chastity device tonight (Carol and I had agreed on that,
as well as telling them only that we were planning a special surprise activity
for them after dinner … and that they would not need their cages for it). After we settled down by the fire, Carol
then explained that we have planned a friendly competition between the
men. She relayed the story of Henry
telling her about having participated in ‘Circle Jerks’ while in college. I could see Barry’s eyes get wide and I was
sure that he was thinking “No way do I want any part of this idea”. However, he kept quiet and let Carol
continue. She explained that she and I
would enjoy watching them masturbate; and she added that we had decided upon a
way to make it interesting and fun. She
explained that the goal would be to be the first one to climax, and that the
winner would earn the right to turn Carol over his knee for a friendly
bare-bottomed hand spanking. Much to my
surprise, Barry was the first to say “I’m in”.
Carol stopped him from saying
anything else by saying, “Wait, there is more”.
She then explained that the loser would stop masturbating as soon as the
winner had been declared; and would then
go over Susan’s lap for a bare-bottomed hairbrush spanking. Barry piped up again with “I’m still in”. It was clear that he was thoroughly motivated
by the possibility of getting to spank Carol.
I have to admit that I wasn’t pleased by that reaction and silently
planned to make him a pay a special price for it with the hairbrush.</div>
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Henry was not so quick to accept the challenge, which concerned me a
little bit. I was sure that Carol must
have mentioned Barry’s ED issues to him at some point. However, he eventually agreed to be part of
the competition.</div>
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<i><u>The Rules<o:p></o:p></u></i></div>
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Carol then provided the following ground rules:</div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->Each male will strip and be naked </div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->Each male can use the lubricant of his choice</div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->Each male will be given a small wine glass into
which he will ejaculate</div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->Each male must be completely flacid when the
competition begins and can begin when Carol announces that the competition has started</div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->Neither male is allowed to use any form of
pornography or any physical device while masturbating (just his mind and his
hand)</div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->The winner is the first one to expel semen from
his penis into his wine glass</div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->The loser must stop as soon as the winner is
declared</div>
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wine glass</div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->The winner will be permitted to turn Carol over
his knee and spank her bare bottom with his hand. Spanking is not to be so hard as to cause
Carol significant pain. If she says the
word “yellow”, the spanker must reduce the intensity of the spanking. If he does not, Carol can say the word “red”,
which will signal the end of the spanking.</div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]-->The loser will then receive a disciplinary hair
brush spanking from Susan on his bare bottom.
This length and severity of this spanking will be determined solely by Susan. The loser must endure whatever she chooses
to dish out.</div>
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After Barry and Henry agreed to the above rules, Carol and I seated
ourselves comfortably on the sofa and Carol directed them to remove all of
their clothing. I was surprised to see
that Henry was now wearing panties. As
they became visible, I nudged Carol and smiled approvingly. She smiled back. I whispered to her that I will be anxious to
learn more.</div>
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<i><u>The Competition Begins<o:p></o:p></u></i></div>
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Once they were naked, we had the men position themselves in front of us.
Then Carol stood up. Turning her bottom towards them she placed
one hand on it and reminded them that the winner would get to spank her. I then held up a heavy wooden hairbrush and
reminded them that the loser would get to experience a heavy dose of it. Carol then said “Gentleman, you may start to
masturbate. May the best man win.”</div>
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It was quite interesting and somewhat amusing to watch the two men
start to masturbate. I must admit that I
hadn’t fully shared Carol’s fascination and desire to watch them
masturbate. However, this quickly became
interesting. Requiring them both to be
flacid at the start was not an issue. It
was apparent that each of them was embarrassed by having to strip in front of
each other and Carol and me. As they
began, I could tell that each was trying to mentally overcome that
embarrassment and to achieve arousal. It
was also clear that each was also keeping an eye on the other one. Henry achieved an erection first, which was
no surprise. What was a surprise was
that he didn’t appear to be very ambitious in his attempt to masturbate once he
was erect. It took Barry a few more
minutes to get hard. Once he did, he started
to work vigorously to bring himself to a climax. Henry then began to work harder, but not as
hard as Barry. Carol and I both looked
at each other and were quite puzzled.</div>
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<i><u>We Have a Winner<o:p></o:p></u></i></div>
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After a number of minutes, Barry climaxed into his wine glass. Henry wasn’t even close and didn’t seem to be
trying very hard. Carol and I looked at
each other … and each quietly voiced, Henry didn’t try to win! I recovered more quickly than Carol and
directed Barry to drink his output. I
added, “After all, that is our house rule; whenever you get to cum you have to
consume it”. I immediately saw Henry’s
look of surprise and Barry’s look of embarrassment. Apparently, that was one secret that Carol
had not shared with Henry.</div>
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As Barry performed his requirement to drink his semen, I announced, “I
think it’s time for dessert”. I needed
some time to prepare myself for what was to follow. I did not expect to have to watch Barry spank
my sister. And, I did not expect to have
to provide a disciplinary spanking to Henry.
While Carol and I were alone in the kitchen preparing dessert, I asked
her if she knew what was going on with Henry.
Why didn’t he even try to win?
She didn’t know either. I asked
her if I should try to sort it out when I gave him the disciplinary
spanking. She agreed that I should.</div>
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<i><u>Carol Gets Spanked<o:p></o:p></u></i></div>
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After having dessert by the fire, I brought a dining room chair into
the room and placed it facing the sofa, about four feet in front of it. I announced that I thought the winner should
go first, so Barry took his place on the chair and directed Carol to come stand
by his side. As she got up to join him,
Henry joined me on the sofa and I reminded Barry of the rules that were
established about spanking Carol. I also
told him that he had better follow them completely or he would find himself getting
a disciplinary spanking along with Henry.</div>
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I could tell that Barry was enjoying this moment immensely. He guided Carol into a position over his lap,
using his right hand to grasp her bottom as he did so. He then took his time shifting her a bit to
get her into a comfortable position for him to spank. I noticed that Carol
seemed to intentionally arch her back a bit, to elevate her bottom, which
didn’t please me very much. It only
served to accentuate her already shapely behind. Barry then asked Carol and me if it was OK if
he began the spanking over her dress instead of starting out immediately on her
bare bottom. We each agreed. I figured it was that much less time that he
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Barry then asked Carol if she was ready for him to begin. When she applied affirmatively, he told her
that he understood that she had been a very naughty girl, and asked her if she
knew what happens to ‘very’ naughty girls vs. just naughty girls. When she said that she didn’t, he then
advised her that naughty girls get spanked, but ‘very’ naughty girls get
spanked on their bare bottom. He further
explained that he was going to start spanking her on her dress, but since she
had been ‘very’ naughty, he was going to eventually bare her bottom before he
was done. During this entire
conversation I couldn’t help but focus on the fact that Barry’s right hand was
cupped around her right bottom cheek. He
then began to spank her: slowly and
methodically over her dress. After each
spank, he allowed his hand to remain on her bottom for a second or two. I’m embarrassed to admit that I was getting
very jealous and upset. I had to force myself
not to make a comment to remind him to behave himself. I also had trouble watching what was
happening. I wanted to watch Barry’s
face to try to determine how much sexual pleasure he was deriving. I also wanted to watch his right hand to see
what he was doing. You can probably
guess that I was a mess! However, I managed
to keep myself together.</div>
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After several minutes of rhythmic spanking, Barry eventually announced
to Carol that it was time to raise her dress and asked her if that was OK. I had to admit that he was being the perfect
gentleman that I know him to be. Carol
replied affirmatively. Barry then slowly
slid her dress up above her waist to reveal, what I am sure, she had worn to
please Henry. As he did so, he revealed
stocking tops attached to a silver grey garter belt, and a bottom encased in sheer
pink panties. The panties had ridden up
a bit to expose more cheek than they were designed to. Barry carefully pulled them back into place
to cover more of her bottom. Again, a
perfect gentleman. I was focused on
watching what was happening, but by the sound I heard emitted next to me by
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Resting his right hand on her bottom (I couldn’t stop my focus on how
much his hand was in constant touch with her bottom) Barry immediately
commented that her panties weren’t going to offer her much protection, but they
would eventually also be removed. (My
mind was in overdrive at this point. I
couldn’t help but feel that Barry was creating a sexual experience for himself
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Barry then resumed the methodical spanking as before, usually
alternating from cheek to cheek, but sometimes administering five or more
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After another period of time, Barry paused again and advised Carol that
it was time to lower her panties and receive the spanking that ‘very’ naughty
girls deserve. He asked her if she
objected. When she said that she did
not, he slipped his finger tips into the waist band of the panties. As he did so, Carol raised her bottom
slightly to allow him to lower them.
Barry slowly lowered them to her knees.
I couldn’t help but notice that Carol spread her legs slightly after the
panties were lowered. I could tell, even
from where I was sitting, that she was providing Barry with a delightful view. It also appeared that Carol was cleanly
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Resting his hand on her bottom again, Barry announced to Carol that
this is when a real spanking takes place.
He then resumed spanking, not any harder than before, but at an
increased pace. I could tell that Carol
was feeling this more. Barry also seemed
to focus more on her lower bottom than he did before, which is much more
tender. I could see Carol’s face and it
was clear that she was working to handle the faster spanking. At one point Barry picked up the pace a
little more, which caused Carol to utter “yellow”. Barry immediately paused and asked her if she
was OK. When she replied affirmatively, he
resumed the spanking at a similar pace, but with less force. After another minute of causing Carol to
squirm, he announced to her that he was going to administer ten hard spanks
rather rapidly, which would be the end of her spanking. He asked if she thought she could take
that. Hearing a ‘yes’, he then delivered
the ten as promised. Carol was very actively
squirming and groaning after the first five, but she took them all. When he finished, he patted her bottom again
and told her it was a lovely shade of pink, which should nicely match her
panties.</div>
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Barry then helped her to her feet.
She immediately reached down to pull up her panties. Since her back was facing me, I could see
that Barry was correct about the shade of pink.
I also glanced over at Barry’s eyes and it was very clear at what part
of Carol’s anatomy he was watching. His
eyes were fixed on her crotch.</div>
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At this point, Barry thanked Carol for allowing him to spank her and
told her that he thoroughly enjoyed the experience. He added, “I hope you did, as well”. Carol immediately responded that she did; and
that it was obvious that he did. She
then directed Barry to stand up and show Henry and me his “tent pole”, adding
for our benefit that she could tell he was enjoying it by the pressure his
erection continually placed on her.
Barry hesitated to stand, and she reached out a hand to help him. There was definitely a tent pole in his
pants! Carol then jokingly added that it
looks like we have discovered a solution for Barry’s ED. She then turned to me and said, “All you
need to do is take a short trip over his lap for a sensual spanking … and he’ll
be ready to go.”</div>
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<i><u>A Surprise for Barry<o:p></o:p></u></i></div>
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Carol then stated that she thought Barry needs to get rid of his
erection; and she proposed that he be required to masturbate for us again. She also justified her request by stating
that she helped him get that erection, so she should get to say how he relieved
it. Barry looked shocked. I was
embarrassed, but not surprised, by Barry’s
sexual reaction to spanking Carol.
Jealousy again reared its ugly head in me. And, feeling a need to punish Barry, I
quickly agreed.</div>
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We then took a break for a second cup of coffee before proceeding. We also talked briefly about Carol’s spanking
and she again thanked Barry for being such a gentleman about how he did it.</div>
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<i><u>Time to Sort Things Out with
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I then stood up from the sofa and turned to Henry who was sitting next
to me. I grabbed him by his left ear and
marched him over to the dining chair, telling him “We have a few things to
discuss tonight about your behavior”. I
could tell that my abruptness took him by surprise, which was the effect I
wanted. As I did this, Carol and Barry
moved to the sofa.</div>
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Sitting on the chair, I told Henry “The first thing I want to talk with
you about concerns why you didn’t seem to try to win the contest earlier
tonight. It was obvious to Carol and me
that you weren’t even trying.” Henry
initially claimed that he had tried but was embarrassed by the entire
situation. After being pressed further,
he finally admitted that he had decided that he really wanted to experience
being spanked by me, so he decided that by losing the contest, he would get
what he considered to be the winning prize.
Carol piped up and asked what happened to his desire to spank her
bottom. Henry, unwisely, remarked that
he thought he could talk her into that when they were alone, but getting
spanked by me was harder to arrange. Carol’s response was simply, “Don’t be so
sure of yourself about either assumption you made”. I commented that it sounds like Henry has
made the common mistake of thinking with the wrong head.</div>
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Keeping Henry standing by my side while I sat in the chair, I asked him
to remove his trousers and to fold them up neatly and put them on the
floor. He quickly complied. I couldn’t resist commenting on the fact that
he was wearing panties and that he had an erection. I asked him if he was excited about being
turned over my knee to be spanked. He
indicated that he was. “Well, let’s see
how long that lasts”, I remarked.</div>
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I then asked him if he has ever received a disciplinary spanking. He replied that he had. When pressed for details, he admitted that he
has received them from the dominatrix he used to see before he got serious with
Carol. I decided to probe further and
asked him if she had ever spanked him to a point where he didn’t feel he could
take anymore. He replied that she had,
so I asked “And what happened then?” His
reply was that he used his ‘yellow’ safe word and she lightened up. I couldn’t resist asking “And you think that
constitutes a real disciplinary spanking?”
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<i><u>Henry Learns What to Expect<o:p></o:p></u></i></div>
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Not waiting for a response, I went on to explain to Barry what constitutes
a true disciplinary spanking… and what he could expect from me in a few
minutes. I first explained that he
would find himself turned over my knee with his bottom bared. I would begin by using the hairbrush to
thoroughly spank every inch of his bottom until it was very red and very
sore. I added that the intensity would
be very tolerable, and perhaps even enjoyable to him. However, I further explained that it would be
a long spanking, and when I was done with that part of his spanking his bottom
would be very sore for at least three days; and that the purpose of that was to
make sure he thought about his punishment every day for that length of time. I went on to explain that once I felt his
bottom was sufficiently tender and sore, the real punishment would begin. I would then spank with greater speed and
intensity. He would quickly come to the
point where he felt he couldn’t handle anymore.
“However”, I added, “It will be different this time. There will be no safe word.” I went on to explain that when I sensed he
could not handle any more, I would not ease up.
Instead, I would increase the intensity, while making sure I held him
firmly in place. He would have no choice
but to take it. “That”, I explained, “is
when real discipline and real learning starts to happen.”</div>
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I then asked Henry if he was ready for that. As he responded in a positive way, I looked
again at his penis. It seemed to be
harder than before, and I could see that it was visibly twitching. “You seem to be very aroused”, I
commented. “Would you like to experience
a release from that?” Not surprisingly,
Henry said “yes”. Barry immediately
said “Don’t do it Henry”. I gave him a
look that told him to stay out of it.</div>
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<i><u>A Surprise for Henry<o:p></o:p></u></i></div>
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I then turned to Carol and shared with her that it appears to me that
Henry is still thinking with the wrong head.
I expressed my opinion that I thought we should grant his request and
then I should administer an appropriate disciplinary spanking to him. When she agreed, I asked her how she thought
we should allow Henry to experience a release of his sexual tension. I was not surprised when she suggested that
he should masturbate for us and drink the result just like Barry did.</div>
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Henry quickly found himself standing in the middle of the room masturbating,
with me holding a wine glass to catch his semen. It took him less than a minute to achieve
orgasm and express a significant amount of fluid into the wine glass. “Wow”, I said to Carol. “How long has it been since he’s had a release?” The answer was a little over a week because
Carol was trying to make sure he would win the original competition. Henry didn’t appreciate it, but I quickly
held the glass above his mouth and forced him to drink his semen.</div>
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<i><u>Henry Receives a Disciplinary
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Henry then found himself standing by my side as I sat in the dining
room chair. He was naked from the waist
down. Using the bristles of the
hairbrush to tease his flacid penis, I asked him if he was still excited about
receiving the disciplinary spanking I previously described to him. He clearly was not. I then asked him if he knew why I was going
to discipline him. I was pleased to hear
him say that it was because he made bad decisions, using his dick (his word),
instead of his brain. I acknowledged
that he was correct and asked him to tell me the bad decisions he made. He correctly mentioned his decision to not
try to win the masturbation contest with Barry.
However, he didn’t come up with anything else. So, I suggested to him that by the time we
were done he would regret the decision to have a sexual release before the
punishment.</div>
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I then turned Henry over my lap and made him spread his legs to better
expose his lower cheeks and lower groove between them. I spent a considerable amount of time
methodically spanking his entire bottom and upper thighs with the
hairbrush. I made sure I paid attention
to the lower slope of his cheeks and the area between them. He actually seemed to enjoy it for a
while. However, before long, it was
clear that it was no longer enjoyable, but not intolerable. When his bottom was a uniform red color and
he seemed to be squirming more, I paused to ask him how his bottom felt. It was clear that he felt it was very
sore. I pushed some more and learned
that it hurt more than he has ever felt before.
I told him that it should and that I expect that it will hurt for
several days. I reminded him that this
is part of the disciplinary process.</div>
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I then told Henry that we were going to move to the next stage of his
disciplinary spanking. I used my right
leg to clamp over Henry’s left leg. I then asked Henry why he was being
disciplined. This time he got it
completely correct about the two bad decisions he had made. I reminded him to keep both of those
decisions in mind during the next few minutes.
I then began to spank him with the hairbrush much more intensely. I still didn’t have to swing hard. I let the hairbrush do the work. However, I increased the frequency of the
spanks and often spanked the same spot repeatedly. Henry’s distress level increased
significantly. At one point I paused and
asked him if we were at the point he had previously used his safe word. Stupidly, he said “no”. So I took his right wrist in my left hand and
held it behind his back. I then began to
spank at the same frequency, but a bit harder.
It was not long before he was frantically trying to get away from me. At this point, I reminded him that this is
when things get learned and to think about his bad decisions. I continued to use the hairbrush to punish
his already sore bottom. I was very
intentional in what I was doing. When I
finished, it was all I could do to hold Henry in place as I spanked him.</div>
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When I finally stopped, Henry just slumped over my knee. I asked him what he had learned. It took him some time to respond, but I was
very pleased to hear that he learned not to think with his ‘dick’ instead of
his brain. And, I was surprised to hear
him add that he learned what a real disciplinary spanking was all about. I decided not to push it any further than
that.</div>
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I looked over at Carol and smiled; and she smiled back. I looked at Barry. It was clear that he had been relating to
what Henry was experiencing. His face
was ashen. He knew what Henry had just
experienced and obviously had a lot of empathy.</div>
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I apologize for the length of this post. It is much too long, and probably not well
written. However, I was anxious to
share what happened last night while it was still fresh in my mind. I will also get together with Carol later
this afternoon. That will give us a chance to talk about what happened last
night. I look forward to learning more
about her reaction and sharing mine with her.
There is much to talk about <span style="font-family: Wingdings; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-char-type: symbol; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-symbol-font-family: Wingdings;">J</span>!</div>
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Susan</div>
Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-9120702329774738392016-09-29T16:09:00.001-04:002016-10-13T11:11:37.673-04:00Learning More About Henry and Making Plans<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;">
I met Carol for coffee several days after we had spanked ‘the
boys’. I couldn’t wait to ask her about
Henry wearing a chastity cage, because she had not previously shared anything
about that with me. I was surprised by
it when we exposed the boys for their spanking.
I had been a bit worried about Barry wearing one, and also the fact that
he would be wearing panties. However,
neither became an issue.</div>
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Carol smiled at my question about his cage and shared that Henry is a
masturbator … just like Barry. She
explained that she recently learned about his habit and has taken a little
different approach than what I took with Barry.
She didn’t spank him severely for it.
However, she immediately required him to wear a cage; and the only time
he gets to masturbate is when she removes the cage and gets to watch him do it. She explained that she finds it exciting to
watch a man masturbate.</div>
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She also explained that she learned a lot more about Henry after our
little play session the other night. He
was quite excited about the joint spanking session. Henry has never been married because he
couldn’t find someone with whom he felt he could share the depth of his
interest in spanking and other fetish activities. After our little session the other night, he
opened up more with Carol because he felt he could trust her and share with her
more than anyone else he has ever met.
She learned a lot in the last 36 hours and is still digesting it.</div>
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Following is a summary of the information Carol shared with me. There was a lot, so I am trying to remember
and capture it as best I can.<span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">·</span><span style="font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal; text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span></div>
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<ul>
<li>Henry’s most important fetish is spanking.<span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">He enjoys being spanked and disciplined; and
also being able to administer spankings to his female partner.</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">From what he has recently shared with Carol,
it seems like he enjoys receiving pretty hard spankings from a disciplinary
standpoint (he shared with her that what she gave him at our play date was a
warm-up spanking).</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">He also indicated
that he doesn’t expect to spank his female partner in a disciplinary way.</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">He likes to make it erotic and stimulating.</span></li>
<li>·<span style="font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">
</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Henry shared with Carol that he has an extensive
amount equipment and toys relating to spanking other fetishes in his home.</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">It seems like he got very nervous about
visiting professional dominatrixes and decided to arrange for the one he
trusted most to come to his home.</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">
</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Consequently, he acquired and provided the equipment he loves most.</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">This apparently includes a spanking bench </span>and a significant collection of paddles, straps, and
hairbrushes, as well as anal play items (enema equipment, butt plugs, and
strap-on dildos).</li>
<li>·<span style="font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">
</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Henry is also has a panty and lingerie
fetish.</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">He likes to be required to
‘dress up’ and he likes his partner to wear girdles, garter belts, stockings,
etc.</span></li>
<li>·<span style="font-size: 7pt; font-stretch: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; line-height: normal;">
</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Henry is also interested in public play as long
as it is conducted away from where he lives, so there is no chance of him being
recognized.</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">One of his strong fantasies
is to be taken into a Victoria Secrets store to have lingerie picked out for
him with the assistance of a sales woman.</span></li>
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</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">Henry loves to be placed in situations where his
female partner controls his sexual pleasure, such as tease and denial, ruined
orgasms, forced/directed masturbation, post orgasm stimulation/torture,</span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;"> </span><span style="text-indent: -0.25in;">multiple forced orgasms over a short period
of time, etc.</span></li>
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The similarities of Henry’s and Barry’s fantasies and fetishes were
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After sharing all this with me, Carol turned the conversation in the
direction of my comfort level with getting involved in some of these fetish
areas as a foursome. Given the comfort
level we experienced a few nights earlier, and the similarity of the things
that Henry and Barry enjoy, I shared that I would be willing to consider
exploring some things as a foursome. I
suggested that we talk about and plan some specific role-play situations and
evaluate them as we go along. I didn’t
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I asked Carol what areas she is most interested in pursuing with Henry
and Barry. After thinking about it for a
few moments, she replied that she is currently fascinated with the idea of
making them masturbate in front of us.
She has watched Henry masturbate several times and loves the way he gets
embarrassed about having her watch. She
would love to see how he reacts to being required to masturbate in front of
another woman and a man. She also
admitted that she would find it exciting to watch Barry masturbate. She still remembers the time that I made him
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When I asked her if she has been thinking of how to script this type of
play session, she smiled coyly and admitted that she has been giving it
considerable thought. “What would you
think of requiring them to have a masturbation contest?”, she asked.
She then told me a story that Henry had shared with her about his
college years. He said that he and his
college buddies arranged to hold a “Circle Jerk”, which is a ‘supposed’ competition
to see who can masturbate the quickest.
However, everyone involved except for the poor guy who is going to be
the butt of the joke knows that there really isn’t a competition. So, the victim of the prank ends up being the
only one trying to masturbate in a dark room full of guys. When the victim succeeds, the lights are
turned on, only to realize that everyone else is fully dressed and is staring at him; and that he has just
jerked off in front of them. She then
asked “What if we had a ‘real’ competition between Barry and Henry?”.</div>
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As we explored this idea, she suggested that the two men be required to
be naked and to attempt to be the first to masturbate to a climax as we watched
and cheered them on. The ‘winner’ would
earn the right to give her a bare bottom spanking over his knee. It seems that Henry has been bugging her to
let him do so. Consequently, she felt
that he would accept the competition.
She also admitted that she suspects that, given Barry’s ED issues, Henry
should easily win the competition. She
must have been reading my mind, because my only concern about this plan was
that I really didn’t like the thought of Barry spanking Carol’s bare
bottom. She is eight years younger than
me and has always had a much more attractive figure than me, especially with
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I began to warm up to the idea, especially if Barry didn’t get to spank
her. I also suggested that there should
be a consequence for the loser. I
suggested that the winner gets to spank Carol, but I get to provide the loser (who
we expect to be Barry) with a bare bottomed disciplinary hairbrush
spanking. Carol loved it. She explained that she really likes the idea
of Henry getting to see the type of spankings that I am capable of
administering. She has told him a bit
about them and he seems fascinated by the fact that I administer real life
disciplinary spankings to Barry. I also
confessed to her that it has been quite a while since I have needed to
administer a disciplinary spanking to Barry.
In this case I would be doing it to punish him for accepting the
masturbation challenge in order to earn the right to give Carol a
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We decided to sleep on it a few nights and to meet again to figure out
if and how we wanted to proceed. We have
since met several times and have finally decided to set our plans for this
little competition into motion. We’re
going to have dinner together at Carol’s home.
During dinner, we will present the competition idea to the boys. If they each accept the challenge, Barry and
Henry will have to stand in front of us and masturbate. The first one to achieve a climax will earn
the right to turn Carol over his knee and give her a hand spanking on her bare
bottom. There will be limitations on
that spanking as far as length and severity.
The intent is for it to be a friendly and fun type of spanking for
her. The loser will have to stop
masturbating as soon as the winner has been declared. Hence, the loser will not get to have an
orgasm that night. The loser will also
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We both feel pleased with these plans.
This feels like a fun ‘next step’ for Carol and me (and we hope for the
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-18898281054051006902016-09-25T10:01:00.000-04:002016-09-25T10:01:02.068-04:00Our First Play Date with Carol and Henry<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;">
I probably shouldn’t call this event a play date. Barry and Henry didn’t know anything about it
in advance, but Carol and I did. A
couple of weeks ago, Carol and I decided that it was an appropriate time to
experiment and see how things would go if we tried to have some fun with Barry
and Henry together. We talked about it
and felt that a joint spanking would be a good way to break the ice. So, Carol and I made plans for us to get
together for dinner at her house and to create a situation where they both
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During dessert Carol purposely raised a topic that she knew Henry had
some strong feelings about … that were somewhat different than hers (a local
political situation). Henry took the
bait and began to argue with her, albeit in a very gentle and kind way. Carol took offense at his arguing and Barry
quickly came to his defense (it really was a fabricated reason for Carol to be
upset). That gave me the opportunity to
intervene and declare that both gentlemen were acting a bit childish and each
deserved a good spanking. I suggested to
Carol that we take care of it right now.
Barry quickly caught on to what was happening and played along. He apologized profusely and begged me not to
spank him in front of Carol and Henry.
However, Henry continued to argue and declare that he didn’t deserve to
be spanked for merely expressing a different view point. At this point, Barry really stepped up to the
plate . He turned to Henry and said
something like “Let it go Henry. Let’s
just take our punishment like the men we are.
How bad can it be, especially since I understand that you and I each
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Two dining room chairs were placed facing each other in the living
room. Carol and I sat down on them.
Since Carol and I each spank with a different hand (right vs left), the
two men found themselves standing side by side in their underwear after we
instructed them to remove their shirts, trousers, shoes, and socks. Barry was wearing is usual panties and Henry
a pair of colored low-rise men’s jockey shorts.
They both couldn’t hide the fact that they were wearing a chastity
cage. I couldn’t resist teasing them a
bit about how sexy they looked and how much I was going to enjoy seeing each of
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As we lowered their underwear, I was surprised to see that Henry was
also wearing a chastity cage. I commented
to Carol that perhaps we should remove their cages so that we can better assess
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As the cages were removed, both of our men began to show signs of
arousal. I couldn’t resist toying with
Barry’s penis while offering loving comments about how nice it was to see him
being excited about getting a spanking.
Carol chimed in as well and we each agreed that we were sure that they would
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As we turned our two little boys over our laps, their heads were side
by side, so they would obviously be aware of each others’ reactions to the
spanking. Carol and I had earlier agreed
that we would play it by ear, but that we would try to keep the level of
discomfort for each of our little boys about the same. Carol warned me that she planned to give
Henry a fairly hard spanking. We also
agreed that we would start with a prolonged hand spanking to warm them up and
see how things were going. We could then
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It turned out to be a lot of fun.
Carol and I could reach each man’s bottom, so we occasionally spanked
the other mate. At one point, when he
was whining and complaining to Carol about being spanked, I reached over and gave
Henry a few hard swats with my hand and told him to stop his whining. Immediately afterwards, Carol gave Barry
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After each bottom was nicely warmed up, I suggested that we needed to
drive our point home to our naughty little boys and suggested that we employ
something more severe than our hands.
Carol agreed and sent Henry to the bedroom to get their bag of
implements. While he was gone, I warned
Barry to be prepared for a tough spanking.
I let him know that he was going to get it worse than Henry. I couldn’t help but smile when he replied
“Give it to me darling. I’ll take
it.” It was clear that he was willing to
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When Henry returned with the bag of implements, Carol suggested that we
let each little boy select an implement to be used. She asked Henry to pick first. He picked a 24” ruler, but I knew that it
could provide a lot of sting, should Carol decide to use it hard. Much to my delight, Barry picked a heavy
wooden hairbrush. Henry looked at him
like he was crazy. Barry picked up on
that and commented to Henry that he knows I will only use it as hard as is
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So, back over our knees the two naughty boys went. They both received an appropriately hard
spanking. Side by side they moaned and
begged. I took my cue from Carol
concerning how hard she wanted to spank Henry.
I initially matched her level. However, as we finished up, I gave Barry a rapid
series of ten swats with the hairbrush that had him begging me to stop. In the
end, they each received a tough spanking.
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When we were done, we settled in for a cup of coffee with each other
and discussed what had happened. I was
pleased to hear from each of them that it was an exciting experience. Carol and I just looked at each other and
smiled. It appeared that the boys were
comfortable with each other. We each
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-91862842863921301752016-09-22T13:43:00.002-04:002016-09-22T13:43:57.565-04:00“Where’ve You Been Susan?”<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: normal; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in;">
"Where've you been?" is a question I get asked a lot these days. I’ve been on hiatus from more than just this
blog. I’ve taken time off from a number
of other activities and connections as well; and it has been good. However, I’m now ready to re-enter the wider
world again. At some point I may share
what prompted my absence, but I’m not ready to do so yet. Please bear with me.</div>
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First, let me assure everyone that Barry and I are fine. We have never been better, both health-wise
and relationship-wise. However, we have
been busy, so it was good to slow some things down a bit.</div>
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My sister, Carol, is also doing great and we have been seeing a lot of
her. Since I last blogged, a new man has
come into her life and she is thoroughly enjoying it. His name is Henry, and he is a wonderful and
kind gentleman about her age. He is also
quite kinky with a naturally submissive side similar to Barry’s. Carol actually met him through FetLife, so
that is not surprising. They’ve been
seeing each other for about four months now and seem to be developing a very
close relationship. During the last two
weeks, we have actually started to play together a little bit, so there may be
some interesting stories for me to tell (with Carol’s permission, of course).</div>
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I hope my small band of loyal readers are well and have not forgotten
me. I apologize for disappearing, but it
did me a lot of good; and my absence has made me realize that I miss having
this outlet to share some things in my life that can’t be shared with most
other people.</div>
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Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-16129287082695714472016-04-05T07:43:00.002-04:002016-04-05T07:43:40.643-04:00Effective Maintenance SpankingsBarry's behavior has been exemplary the past two weeks. He is been kind, loving, helpful around the house, and eager to provide me with sexual pleasure. I'd like to think that a new maintenance spanking procedure that I implemented may be part of the reason. The first Sunday afternoon after his last punishment session I announced to him that Sunday would now be "maintenance spanking day" in our household.<br />
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I also decided that the maintenance spanking should be one that would give him something to think about for several days. Yet, I didn't want the spanking itself to be as intense as a punishment spanking. So, two Sundays ago I implemented the following approach. Sitting on the sofa in our family room, I lowered Barry's panties and took him over my lap with his upper torso resting on the sofa. I asked him to make sure he was comfortable, because he was going to be there for a good length of time. I then used one of our wooden hairbrushes to methodically spank every inch of his bare bottom, and gave extra special attention to his sit spot. I didn't spank terribly hard, but let the hairbrush do the work. The result was a very prolonged continual spanking (over 1/2 hour) that left his bottom very red and sore. The intensity was such that Barry could tolerate it more easily than a punishment spanking. However, the prolonged use of the hairbrush left him with a soreness deep into his muscles back there. His bottom was still pink on Wednesday and Barry admitted that he was still sore and was aware of his bottom with every movement.<br />
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I repeated the same type of spanking this past Sunday. However, this time we had a little surprise. I had just started the spanking when our doorbell rang. I got up to see who was there and it was Carol! As she and I walked back to the family room, Barry was in the process of pulling on his pants. Carol immediately apologized for having interrupted us in something (with a big smile on her face). I explained that I has just started administering Barry's weekly maintenance spanking and suggested that she might like to help me. After telling Barry to strip back down to his panties, I asked Carol to bring two chairs in from the dining room; and I retrieved another heavy hair brush from our bedroom. Carol and I then seated ourselves facing each other. After taking Barry's panties back down, he went over our laps. I then explained and demonstrated my new technique to her. However, before we really got started, Carol commented that Barry seemed to be enjoying this new technique. His erection against her thigh was very apparent.<br />
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Making Barry stand up, I confirmed that he was fully aroused. "I think you need to get rid of that" I said to Barry. He looked stunned and almost pleaded with me to just give him time for it to go down. "I don't think so, I told him. Go into the kitchen and get a small glass" I replied. He then did plead with me not to make him do that. "Go ... now", I said.<br />
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When Barry returned, I told him to explain to Carol our new house rule. At this point he began to blush, but finally stammered to her that whenever I allow him to have an orgasm, he has to consume his fluid. I then directed him to get busy, because I wanted to be sure that he didn't find his maintenance spanking to be an enjoyable experience. It took him some time, but he eventually succeeded and followed through with the new rule. I could tell that Carol was enjoying the sight intensely.<br />
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When he was finished, Barry was back over our laps, where he remained for well over a half hour, with two of us working on his bottom. By the time we let him up, his bottom was even redder than last week.<br />
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We'll see if the effects are as good the second week as the first. I'm hoping they will be.<br />
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SusanSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-65477982442605209982016-03-22T14:04:00.001-04:002016-03-22T14:04:50.921-04:00Update re: Domestic Discipline or Rape?I first want to express my appreciation to each of you who took the time and energy to share your thoughts and comments about the previous post. I spent most of last week contemplating the situation and your input was very helpful.<br />
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What first got me thinking more about Barry's reaction was the comment from Anonymous on March 14 in which he shared that there was a piece of the puzzle missing. When I looked back on the evening of Barry's punishment, I realized that Barry did not react in a negative way at all when Carol massaged his prostate. If he was feeling violated, I would have expected him to act repulsed and/or frightened, and to try to avoid what was happening. On the contrary, he seemed to be enjoying it. He was moving his bottom towards Carol, not away from her, and he was emitting sensual, moaning sounds as if to express his pleasure with what she was doing. Anonymous was correct. Things just didn't add up.<br />
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More comments later on in the week also seemed to confirm my newly developed feelings and assessment of what happened. Barry had actually enjoyed his punishment and should be appreciative of Carol and me, and not be trying to manipulate things.<br />
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So, Sunday evening, I had another talk with Barry. I shared my assessment and asked him to explain why he had appeared to be enjoying things so much if he felt he was being violated or raped. He tried to wiggle his way out of my questions, but eventually admitted that he enjoyed what she was doing at the time, but felt humiliated afterwards. He also finally admitted that he was using the "feeling violated" approach as a way to get his way in the future.<br />
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I was pleased that he finally told me the truth, but was upset that he had been deceptive with me and was trying to be controlling. Thanks to your comments, he didn't get away with it.<br />
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Yesterday, I called Carol and we had long chat. She seemed a bit relieved about things because she had been concerned that she had caused some problems for Barry and me. I assured her that it was Barry who has caused the problems. After discussing several options of how to proceed, we decided that Carol would come by for dinner that evening so that we could sort things out with him. We also decided that her visit would be a surprise for Barry.<br />
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Barry was quite surprised when Carol arrived last night shortly before dinner was ready. I could also see a look of concern in his eyes. During dinner, I opened the conversation about Barry trying to manipulate things by claiming that Carol had violated him during his previous discipline session. I also let him know that I have already shared all of our discussions with Carol. However, I also made Barry personally admit what he had done to her. As dinner ended, I informed Barry that he was going to be punished again and that this time he will hopefully have a better understanding of the definition of being violated versus feeling humiliated after experiencing something that he enjoyed. He immediately became argumentative and tried to convince us that it wasn't a big deal. He claimed that he was just having fun with us. At that point Carol asked him if he had read the numerous comments to my blog post about the punishment session. When he informed us that he had not, she let him know that the comments all seemed to be from male readers and almost all did not agree with his perspective. She also produced a printed copy of the comments from her purse and proceeded to read them to Barry. I could tell that he was very surprised by the reaction of my readers.<br />
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As we finished dinner, Carol and I began to clear the table. I directed Barry to go to our bathroom and use a Fleet enema; and to then dress in clothing that was on our bed for him. He was then to meet us in the living room. When we had finished the dishes, we found Barry in the living room wearing the red baby doll nightgown with matching panties, along with white thigh-high stockings that I had left out for him. He looked quite nervous. When we entered the room, I suggested to Carol that she should make sure Barry has no desire for sexual arousal, which was are agreed upon way of me telling her to milk him again.<br />
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Carol then placed a towel on our sofa and made Barry kneel on it with his hands on the back of the sofa like she did last week. She then proceeded to glove up, lubricate, and enter his bottom ... not quite as gently as last time. It took a bit longer this time, but she eventually produced a stream of seminal fluid oozing from his caged penis. As a side note, I am amazed at how easily she does this. It seems much easier for her than me: perhaps due to her career as a nurse.<br />
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Barry seemed more subdued during this procedure than last week. I suspect it was due to his realization that Carol and I were not happy with the stunt he had pulled, claiming that he had been violated. He clearly didn't enjoy it this time, but he also didn't try to make her stop.<br />
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As Carol finished and removed her glove, I stood up and announced to Barry that it is now time for some real learning to take place. I directed Barry to meet us in the guest room. Carol and I then went to our bedroom where we prepared ourselves with our strapons. I had Carol wear a smaller one, comparable to Barry's erect penis, which is also the one that we like to use for pegging. It was the one I pegged him with last week. I wore a much larger one, which Barry and I have never used for pegging. He is clearly intimidated by its size. It is about 8" long and 2" in diameter. I bought it as kind of a joke and have worn it under my skirt or jeans to tease Barry when I planned to peg him, but I have never attempted to insert it into him.<br />
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When we arrived in the guest room wearing our strapons, I could see the look of fear in Barry's eyes. He was sitting in a comfortable chair as we approached. We both stood in front of him and we each made a point of holding our strapon in our hand as I spoke to him. "You are about to get fucked", I said. "I want you and I to each learn more about how you feel about Carol violating you. So, I am going to give you a choice. Do you want her to fuck you with a comfortable dildo? Or, do you want me to fuck you with this?"<br />
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The look on his face was priceless. He quickly chose Carol! I couldn't help but comment that apparently he doesn't feel violated by allowing Carol to fuck him. I also purposely was allowing my language to be course at this time. I was tired of the games that he was playing with me. I then made Barry lie over the Liberator wedge on the bed and secured his wrists and ankles with the under-the-bed bondage system, and directed Carol to have her way with him and to not feel a need to be gentle. Carol then made him suck her strapon, and told him to make sure he makes it very wet, because that was the only lubricant she was going to use ... since it was such a small dildo. Barry responded as you would expect. He vigorously slurped all over her dildo. I have to confess that I enjoyed watching this spectacle. She eventually moved behind him and proceeded to vigorously peg him. She looked to me several times to make sure I was OK with what she was doing ... and I was.<br />
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When Carol finally finished, Barry was groaning,not moaning. It had clearly not been a pleasant sexual experience for him. I then placed my large strapon in his face and directed him to prepare it for insertion. Again he slurped all over it. When I went behind him, I did add a small amount of lube without Barry being aware of me doing it. I then told Barry that we were going to do a little role play ... and explained that she should imagine that he had just entered prison and was placed in a cell with a very large, mean looking convict. In the middle of the night, he awakens to find the other convict sitting on his back and beginning to tie his hands behind his back. He then tells Barry that he is his bitch. He also tells him to not bother making any noise, because the guards won't react. They realize that when he (the other convict) receives his sexual relief, things seem to run more smoothly in the prison. He tells Barry that the positive side of being his bitch is that he will be the only one who will do this to him. He will protect Barry from all of the other horny men who would otherwise find ways to fuck him. I then told Barry to pretend that I am the other convict.<br />
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Even though his bum hole was loosened up by Carol's pegging, it still took quite some time to get the entire dildo inserted. Due to its size, I tried to be relatively gentle with the insertion process. However, once it was fully in him, I announced that he was not going to be fucked. I proceeded to slide it in and out with a regular rhythm. At the end I was thrusting harder and faster, mimicking a climax. When I finished, Barry was lying limply over the Liberator wedge. I then asked Barry how it felt to be fucked and violated in that way. He mumbled something about it not being any fun at all and he seemed relieved that we were done. However, he quickly learned that we weren't.<br />
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I then explained to him that the first part of the lesson was over ... the learning part. However, he was now going to be punished for lying to me about his reaction to Carol. The two of us then retrieved two paddles from under the bed. Carol took the Jokari and I took the large lexan paddle. With the two of us standing on opposites sides of the bed, we team paddled him. I would strike first with the lexan across both cheeks and Carol would immediately apply the Jokari across both. That way I could control the tempo and set the example of harshness for each stroke. But, each stroke consisted of two swats, one from each of us. I didn't keep count, but we each must have delivered at least 40 or 50 strokes, the last 10 from each of us in rapid succession. By that time, Barry was sobbing and begging us to stop.<br />
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I then released Barry from his bondage and took him into my arms to comfort him. I asked Carol to go to the kitchen and prepare a glass of wine for each of us. After about ten minutes, Barry and I joined her.<br />
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It was definitely a learning experience for Barry. I am pretty confident that he learned a hard lesson about lying to me and trying to control me.<br />
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Thanks again for your thoughtful and helpful comments.<br />
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Susan<br />
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<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-12715203647825214942016-03-13T17:44:00.000-04:002016-03-13T17:44:27.507-04:00Domestic Discipline or Rape?I have been hoping the Barry would feel comfortable to personally share information about what happened last weekend with Carol. However, I don't think that is going to happen. It is still a bit raw for him and he's not ready or able to share much about it.<br />
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He and I have had a number of discussions the past week about one aspect of how Carol disciplined him. Our discussions were focused on Barry's reaction to Carol massaging and milking his prostate gland. I probably shouldn't have been, but I was surprised when Barry told me that he felt violated by her actions. At first, I didn't fully understand his reaction.. However, as we talked I became more understanding of his perception that she was personally stimulating a sexual area (the male P-spot) for the purpose of making him climax (albeit a very non-rewarding climax). He viewed that very differently than just inserting a butt plug or dildo in his bottom. He really made me stop and think when he asked me how I would feel if his brother inserted his fingers in my vagina and also used them to stimulate my clitoris to the point of climax. My honest answer was that I would feel like I was being raped. And, that is exactly how Barry felt.<br />
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I am saddened that I didn't realize that would be his reaction. I am also sorry that I gave Carol such carte blanche authority to discipline Barry. That was a mistake that I will not make again. On the positive side, I am glad to learn that there is a limit to Barry submissive side. I didn't know where that limit was (or if it existed), but now I do. That is a good thing.<br />
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We continue to grow ...<br />
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SusanSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-50311140037705617462016-03-08T07:40:00.001-05:002016-03-08T14:17:23.155-05:00Carol Punishes BarryWhile Barry and I were eating lunch on Saturday, I shared with him that my sister Carol would be stopping by during the afternoon. I also let him know that I have given her full authority to punish him in whatever way she feels is appropriate for his groping of her ass last Sunday. I strongly suggested that he offer her a heartfelt apology when she arrives and then accept however she decides to respond.<br />
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Carol arrived around 2 PM. Barry was in his office working on our tax return, so I fixed tea for Carol and me. I also let Barry know that Carol had arrived. He indicated that he would be out shortly. While we were waiting for Barry, I asked Carol if she had decided how she would punish Barry. She indicated that she had and asked if it would be OK for her to remove Barry's chastity device. She also shared that she planned to make Barry feel very vulnerable and to make sure he had a very sore bottom at the end. She also asked if she have access to our collection of spanking implements and toys. I took her to our bedroom where she picked out several items and I gave her the key to Barry's cage. When we returned to the living room, Carol placed the items in a large canvas tote bag that she had with her.<br />
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Well, it was almost 3 PM before Barry appeared! That was probably not a good decision on his part. It was also not a good decision to offer a terse apology with the excuse that he didn't realize what he was doing. I could tell that Carol was not very pleased with Barry's response and I could almost see her mood harden. She asked Barry if he understood that I have given her permission to punish him in whatever way she desires. When Barry acknowledged that he did, I suggested that we retire to our family room. <br />
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When we entered the room, Carol grabbed Barry by his left ear and led him to a corner. She directed him to wait there and to consider why he was going to be punished while she prepared a few things. She then took some items out of her tote bag and placed them on a side table. However, she seemed to purposely leave some items in the bag.<br />
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When she was done, Carol sat down on the hassock in our family room and directed Barry to come to her. While he stood in front of her, she carried on a lengthy conversation with him concerning why he was being punished. During this time she made him admit that took very inappropriate liberties with her as he groped and played with her ass. She also made it clear that she was now going to take liberties with him. After unbuckling his belt and lowering his trousers, she directed him to remove his shirt. She then helped him step out of the trousers, leaving him standing in front of her dressed in only his panties. I was impressed with how she took her time and let her hands wander about his groin and ass, while teasing him about the chastity cage he was wearing. She played with it and his testicles through his panties while she continually asked him questions about why he was in a cage. She didn't stop until he admitted that he has been addicted to porn and masturbation and that this is the only way that I (Susan) can assure that he will be fully devoted to pleasing her. I have to confess that she was really quite amazing in her understanding of our situation.<br />
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Then, she slowly lowered his panties ... and produced the key to the lock on his cage. It was very clear that Barry got very nervous as she unlocked it, and talked with him as she removed it, explaining that I had given her permission to punish him in any way she deemed appropriate.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqeD0lKRGSl7nhIHNlIjbZE8jB98WqA_0b2P9OBI5zNXXWQ0Dm59auaozpuUW51q3iL5TPmwrzRgsXYvHXT1-j_TR0_0SjgBZkXO-QBji_UcXvyzj7UEIB3uloz8_3p8Ua1zhnKdgyUcEz/s1600/tumblr_o0bjt21xW51r81gjco1_540.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="133" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqeD0lKRGSl7nhIHNlIjbZE8jB98WqA_0b2P9OBI5zNXXWQ0Dm59auaozpuUW51q3iL5TPmwrzRgsXYvHXT1-j_TR0_0SjgBZkXO-QBji_UcXvyzj7UEIB3uloz8_3p8Ua1zhnKdgyUcEz/s200/tumblr_o0bjt21xW51r81gjco1_540.jpg" width="200" /></a>Carol also took advantage of Barry being very erect when she removed his cage. She quickly began teasing him about why he was aroused. He had no good answer to her questions. Now being completely naked, Barry was completely exposed to however she wanted to touch him ... which she did! While doing so, she made it clear that she was only doing to him what he had done to her.<br />
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She then told Barry that there would be two parts to his punishment. The first would address his inability to control his hands. The second would address his attitude last Sunday evening that he owned her ass, or at least felt he could do whatever he wanted with respect to fondling it.<br />
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"Let's deal your inability to control your own hands first", she said. Standing up, she directed Barry to hold his right hand out in front of his waist, palm up. She then went to the side table and retrieved our ash ruler paddle. She advised Barry that each hand was going to receive ten strokes of the paddle on its palm. After telling him to hold his hand perfectly still, she delivered the first stroke. It was obvious by his reaction that it really hurt. After slowly delivering ten strokes to the right hand,she repeated the process for his left hand. As she finished, she commented to him that hopefully in the future he will think more carefully about how he uses his hands.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDk5oSfyNUWwW6KRnHqdktpZp2LlGlNQ0hbJCajE5Ot8t0-nfhWYPrwg9GMuSvVnlr1JqT4AE8qbcC7I0J6Fk2ofQfK0fSBUwd7JzMto3FLBY8PxbJwt8a4AeIaJgNI2cw5U6BfctxvdYZ/s1600/174_1000.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="135" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDk5oSfyNUWwW6KRnHqdktpZp2LlGlNQ0hbJCajE5Ot8t0-nfhWYPrwg9GMuSvVnlr1JqT4AE8qbcC7I0J6Fk2ofQfK0fSBUwd7JzMto3FLBY8PxbJwt8a4AeIaJgNI2cw5U6BfctxvdYZ/s200/174_1000.jpg" width="200" /></a>Carol then retrieved our set of wrist cuffs from the side table and bound Barry's wrists together in front of him ... telling him she plans to make sure he keeps them under control for the next part of his punishment. After sitting on the hassock again, Carol made Barry stand in front of her while she teased him about getting aroused in front of her. She then informed him that the next part of his punishment would deal with the fact that he acted like he could touch her in any way he wanted last Sunday night, as if he owned her ass. She explained that tonight she was going to own his ass. She then looked over at me and told me not to worry ... she didn't plan to peg Barry. "That would be too easy and he would enjoy it too much", she explained. She then took him over her lap and made him spread his legs, which left his ass and genitals completely exposed and vulnerable to her. She emphasized that fact my toying with his ass, as well as his scrotum penis. She even gave the head of his penis a few playful swats to emphasize just how vulnerable he was.<br />
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She then asked me to bring her the hairbrush from the side table and immediately put it to work. I was impressed with the methodical way she firmly spanked Barry's bottom She started on his right cheek and repeatedly spanked it with the brush until it was bright red. She then moved to his left cheek and repeated the process. At that point she stopped to massage and fondle and massage his bottom, reminding him how he had done that to her. However, she also let her fingers drift and tease his anus and his scrotum. She then used her left hand to hold his right cheek away from his cleft ... and worked on that inner area with the brush until it was also bright red. No surprise that she then did the save with his left cheek. She was going to leave no area untouched! After more massaging and teasing, she turned her attention to the lower slope of his bottom, just above his thighs. She did all of this very methodically. It was not a beating, but the results were very impressive.<br />
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When she was satisfied, Carol reached into her tote bag again and produced a Fleet Enema bottle. Barry couldn't see it, but he was obvious that he knew what it was when he felt the tip being inserted. After emptying its contents into his rectum, Carol then went back to her tote and pulled out the penis shaped butt plug that she had taken from our toys. It is not very long, but it has great girth. After lubing it well, in it went. And, then Carol went back to the methodical spanking routine.<br />
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After about ten minutes (I'm guessing here), she directed him to go to the bathroom and empty his bowels. Barry looked at her and said he didn't know how to get the plug out, since his hands were still bound. Carol quickly replied something like "Oh Dear, I guess you're going to need some help. I'll be happy to do that." The two of them then went into the bathroom and Carol left the door open, so I decided to watch. It was interesting to observe Barry's reaction to having Carol remove the plug as he kept his bottom just above the toilet. When he was done, it was also interesting to see his reaction to having Carol clean up his bottom.<br />
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I disappeared before she was done, so Barry wouldn't necessarily know that I had been watching (although I later shared that fact with him). When they came back into the family room, Carol placed a towel on our sofa and directed Barry to kneel on it with his legs spread and to place his hands on the back of the sofa. She then retrieved an exam glove for her bag, put it on, and lubed it well. I could tell by his body action that Barry knew what was coming next. Carol proceeded to insert her first two fingers into Barry's bum hole. As she moved them around a smile came over her face as she found his prostate. She proceeded to massage it and, after about 10 minutes, her efforts produced results. Barry groaned and whimpered as some juice started to flow from his penis. During the entire process she was teasing Barry about how much she was enjoying playing with HIS ass.<br />
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Carol then took Barry back over her lap and again went into her tote bag. Much to my surprise, she produced a tube of IceyHot gel; and proceeded to rub a bit of it into the entire reddened area of Barry's bottom and upper thighs. As she did this, she shared with Barry that she wanted him to remember this spanking a bit longer. She also rubbed some of it onto his scrotum and the shaft of his penis, and re-inserted the butt plug (but with no IceyHot).<br />
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She then again returned to the tote bag and produced a panty girdle, which I later learned was one of hers. Un-cuffing Barry's wrists, she directed him to put on the girdle. She told him that she suspects that it might be a little small for him, but that was all the better...because she wanted it to help hold in the heat of his spanking and the feeling of the IceyHot. It was a bit small and Barry had to work hard to get it on. It was obviously going to be tight and constricting. I also have to admit that I was quite intrigued about this phase of his punishment. When he finally got it on, Carol turned to me and said that Barry is not to remove it until the morning. She added that she doesn't care if he claims he needs to go to the bathroom. He just had a bowel movement and he urinated. He can control how much fluid he takes in tonight ... so that should not be an issue. <br />
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It seemed like the punishment was now done. However, it was now a bit after 5 PM. So, I suggested that Carol stay for dinner. I explained that I had a pot of stew ready for an informal dinner. Barry looked at me as if I was crazy. However, I thought this would be a good time to debrief a bit.<br />
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While we ate dinner, we discussed a bit about what had happened. I won't go into that right now, but it was an interesting conversation on the part of both Carol and Barry. As dinner ended and Carol began to make plans to leave, she began gathering her things. As almost an afterthought, she turned to Barry and said that she wanted to leave him a final impression. After dropping his trousers, she directed him to bend over the end of the table. She then proceeded to use the ash ruler paddle over his panty girdle. Each stroke was applied very firmly as she worked her way from the middle of his bottom to the top of his thighs; and then worked her way back up. Even through the girdle, it was clear that Barry was feeling this last paddling. She then pulled his girdle down, applied some more IceyHot and replaced it. As she left she shared with Barry that she hopes he thinks about her a lot this evening.<br />
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Susan<br />
<br />Susanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-72863002488785633612016-03-02T13:36:00.000-05:002016-03-02T13:36:06.362-05:00Barry's Turn - Pegged with WitnessesSusan has suggested (directed) that I personally share my thoughts about what happened Sunday evening rather than having her to share them for me. As I have previously shared, this is not a very easy thing for me to do, but I will do my best.<br />
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I guess I should begin with my thoughts about being pegged. It is difficult for me to explain why I am so drawn by this activity. I guess it is because it makes me feel completely vulnerable and submissive to Susan. After all, I don't think I could feel anymore exposed and vulnerable than when my butt is in the air and Susan is sliding her dildo into it. That coupled with the sexual arousal I feel while being penetrated puts me at a very special "place".<br />
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So, pegging is something that really turns me on, which is why I have asked Susan to do it. And it is why I agreed to have her sister and friend witness the event. It was the only way she would do this to me. I had serious doubts about whether it would be a good decision before Sunday. However, after the evening ended, I was very glad that I took the chance.<br />
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Having Carol and Helen spank me before the pegging was extremely helpful. I love to be spanked and that felt like a very safe way to get them involved in the evening. I also loved the way they teased me while spanking me at a very comfortable level.<br />
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The only time I felt any concern that night was when Carol stood up and revealed that she had a strapon under her dress. My immediate fear was that Susan would let Carol peg me what was obviously a much bigger dildo than I had ever taken. However, my fears were reduced when I realized that I would hopefully only be required to suck on it. That actually excited me. Once I started, the complete submissiveness of having Susan penetrating my ass while I was sucking Carol's strapon put me in complete subspace. I suspect that is why I ended up grabbing Carol's ass so forcefully (I don't really remember doing it).<br />
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I was also in a very wonderful place during the final portion of the evening, when I had a strapon in each end while Susan brought me to a forceful climax. I also don't really remember (although Susan has assured me that it happened) licking my juice off Carol's strapon.<br />
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I'm not sure if this helps explain why I feel the way I do. However, I hope it conveys what a wonderful experience I enjoyed Sunday evening. I fully realize that I am an extremely lucky man to have Susan as my wonderful. Our relationship is something that I could never have dreamed of four or five years ago. She is a gift to me and I love her deeply ... such that I will do anything for her.<br />
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BarryBarryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15978773440710144169noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-90236963862961527482016-03-02T08:57:00.000-05:002016-03-02T09:19:06.412-05:00Follow-up with Carol and HelenBased on their comments at the end of Sunday evening, and a phone call I had with each of them on Monday morning, it is apparent that Carol and Helen thoroughly enjoyed themselves! Helen acknowledged that she was a little apprehensive when she arrived and during our dessert conversation. However, the non-disciplinary spanking she helped administer to Barry seemed to really help break the ice. She loved being able to spank Barry at that level of intensity and see the impact it had on him. She was later amazed at how much Barry seemed to enjoy what I did do him and how excited it made him. And she expressed her appreciation to me for letting her be just an observer during those activities. She admitted that she probably would not have been comfortable doing what Carol did.<br />
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On the other hand, Carol loved being involved. She offered that she found it very exciting, and even arousing, to see how much Barry loved being anally taken by me. She was especially amazed at how actively and purposely Barry sucked her strapon ... both times. She loved seeing that reaction, especially when he was groping her behind as he pulled her closer to him to better work on the strapon. She volunteered that she would have loved to have been even more involved than what she was, but that she understands that I probably don't want to open that door.<br />
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I was glad that she wasn't upset by Barry's groping and I again suggested that she should give him a sound spanking for being so fresh with her. She agreed that it would be very appropriate and that she would be happy to teach him a lesson. At the moment we are thinking of having her drop by sometime Saturday afternoon, at which time the spanking will be administered. In the meantime, which are each giving some thought as to how to make it a very embarrassing event for Barry.<br />
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SusanSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.com4