In his recent post, Barry shared his desire (he would say 'need') to be embarrassed or humiliated in front of another woman by being exposed when he is disciplined. For quite some time I have been aware of his need to be spanked and his very strong submissiveness. However, until this week, I didn't realize how strong a feeling the embarrassment issue was for him. I've been giving it considerable thought, especially with respect to trying to understand why the feelings are so strong and how we might provide this type of experience in a way that is comfortable for me. Of course, Barry has been spanked in front of my sister in the past; and even been spanked by her. However, that doesn't seem to completely fulfill his desire.
I didn't overtly plan for it to happen this soon, but events yesterday created a situation where it will likely happen tomorrow evening. I was having lunch with a lovely lady who lives nearby. She is about my age (probably a little younger) and we have gotten to know each other quite well. She is a widow, having lost her husband a little over a year ago to a sudden, unexpected, massive heart attack. During our lunch yesterday, she asked how things were going with Barry and me. I don't know whether it was because of the way she asked the question, but for some reason I let my guard down and replied in a way that I have never done with anyone other than my sister. I commented that we are doing well, but that I have had to return to disciplining him lately. She immediately picked up on that and started asking more questions in a very kind and gentle way. It felt very comfortable, so I ended up sharing a lot about our FLR and spanking relationship with her. I was surprised that nothing I said appeared to shock her and she was extremely intrigued by everything I shared. At one point, she shared that she wished that she and her husband had enjoyed such a relationship.
The end result was that I shared with her Barry's desire to have a witness to his spanking. I also asked her how she would feel about observing a spanking session and creating an embarrassing situation for him. To my surprise, she was very interested and actually seemed quite excited about such opportunity. So, Helen has been invited to dinner tomorrow night and I plan to administer another punishment spanking to Barry for his recent activities. I also plan to require Barry to explain to Helen why he is being punished while he is naked and ready to go over my lap.
Barry doesn't know about this yet, and I will admit that I'm a little anxious about what I have set into motion. During dinner tonight I will share with him that he will be punished again tomorrow night and that Helen will be present to witness it. I'm sure I'll have a better idea at that point of whether it is a mistake. If I feel it is, I can always call it off or postpone it.