Since learning that Barry's sister and I have a good deal in common with respect to handling our partners, we have had several lengthy telephone conversations that included discussions of a wide variety of topics. During our first conversation she recommended two new toys that I immediately ordered and they arrived today. Barry doesn't know that I ordered them, so they will be a complete surprise to him. I hope to put the first one to use on Saturday night. Joan, Carol, Barry and I will be spending Saturday night in the family home, which we are now working to clean out and get ready to sell. Saturday is also Barry's birthday, so Joan and I are planning a special surprise celebration for the birthday boy :-).
The first toy is a leather "Spanking Buddy" from Cane-iac. Joan loves it and, after feeling it today, I am sure that I will as well. I'm not sure that Barry will be as thrilled with it :-). We both love hand spanking, but a little experimentation with it today revealed that it packs a very good impact and Joan raves about how much it saves her hand! I can't wait to see his reaction to it, especially with what I have planned for Saturday night (more about that later).
Joan's second recommendation came after she learned that Barry and I have experimented with a strap-on. She immediately told me that I must get a "Real-doe" dildo with a vibrator built in. I had looked into the "Feel-doe" models before I bought a strap-on. However, it seemed like it would be very hard and unrealistic. Joan found the same thing about that original model, but she loves the realistic feel of the "Real-doe" and especially loves the sensations it provides to its wearer. Since my current strap-on was purchased to be about the same size as Barry's penis, this is going to be a huge change for him. I can't wait to try it out Sunday night after we return home. I want to make this a very special occasion for both of us, so a little belated birthday gift seems to be appropriate.
In case you're wondering, Barry will not see this blog entry before this weekend. He only reads my blog when we can do it together, in order for us to be able to discuss what he sees that I have written. For obvious reasons, we won't find time to read it before this weekend :-).
Susan
With all due respect, you're talking about strap-ons with your sister-in-law?!?! Maybe it's just me, but that is a little too close to home.
ReplyDeleteLocked: I know it seems very unusual. However, if you knew Joan, it would not seem so surprising. When it comes to sexual issues and discussions with Barry and me, she has no inhibitions, as evidenced by her directing Barry to drop his trousers so she could see his panties.
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I don’t see the problem either. My wife talks to her sister over the phone about disciplining me and also in person. It’s certainly no big deal. Susan I do have a question others might have as well. After you have used the “spanking buddy” could you comment on its effectiveness especially compared to the brush or strap? My wife has looked at them on line but thinks they are more of a toy. If it is an effective tool, hand spanking would become a serious discipline option in our home. My wife would like to administer hand spankings but she can’t spank hard enough with her bare hand to have much impact on me
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Alan
Susan,
ReplyDeleteFair enough. I guess I'm just a very private person and would be very uncomfortable sharing those type of details with our respective families. That said, I certainly respect that every couple is different. Glad I found your blog.
This sounds incredibly fun and I'm sure you are busting for Saturday to arrive. I'm certain that this will bring Barry to a whole new level of submission and humiliation being spanked in front of his sister or perhaps even by his sister. I can't wait to hear.
ReplyDeleteI would like to know what you thought of your new toys.
ReplyDeleteMy wife and I have a similar relationship as You and Barry.
Thanks, Bill
I would be interested in two things about the "realdo" (if you get it). One, how does it stay in place while you move? It seems to me more of a novelty than a useful device. Two, how long is this thing after you substract the portion that can't be used, because of its location? I mean, How much of this thing can actually be used in penetrating?
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