A Special Anniversary

It has now been one year since Barry and I started our journey of incorporating spanking and other fun into our marriage.  It was not a path that I would have chosen, which is evident by the fact that we were married for almost thirty years before I realized how much it meant to Barry and how important it would be to our marriage.  Twelve months ago, I could have never dreamed of what Barry and I are currently doing now, especially what we did last night with respect to exploring chastity (that needs to be a separate post).  In the last year there have been so many new things that I have explored and enjoyed, that I would have previously completely rejected as being wierd or perverted.  Just to name a few:

• spanking Barry for fun
• administering a punishment spanking to Barry
• allowing Barry to give me an erotic spanking ... and enjoying it
• making and enjoying Barry wear panties
• shaving Barry's genitals
• erotically teasing Barry and actually deciding if, when, and how he will climax
• really enjoying letting Barry orally pleasure me
• erotically teasing Barry in a public place in a way that no one else knew it was happening
• asserting myself with respect to sexuality
• purchasing sexual toys on line
• experimenting with a male chastity device

In addition to feeling amazed, I am also feeling extensive gratitue as I realize how much these activities have enriched our relationship as we move into a new phase of our life with respect to age and activity.

This has been an amazing gift and I will be forever grateful for its impact on our marriage.

Susan