Saturday, March 12, 2011

A Special Anniversary

It has now been one year since Barry and I started our journey of incorporating spanking and other fun into our marriage.  It was not a path that I would have chosen, which is evident by the fact that we were married for almost thirty years before I realized how much it meant to Barry and how important it would be to our marriage.  Twelve months ago, I could have never dreamed of what Barry and I are currently doing now, especially what we did last night with respect to exploring chastity (that needs to be a separate post).  In the last year there have been so many new things that I have explored and enjoyed, that I would have previously completely rejected as being wierd or perverted.  Just to name a few:
  • spanking Barry for fun
  • administering a punishment spanking to Barry
  • allowing Barry to give me an erotic spanking ... and enjoying it
  • making and enjoying Barry wear panties
  • shaving Barry's genitals
  • erotically teasing Barry and actually deciding if, when, and how he will climax
  • really enjoying letting Barry orally pleasure me
  • erotically teasing Barry in a public place in a way that no one else knew it was happening
  • asserting myself with respect to sexuality
  • purchasing sexual toys on line
  • experimenting with a male chastity device
In addition to feeling amazed, I am also feeling extensive gratitue as I realize how much these activities have enriched our relationship as we move into a new phase of our life with respect to age and activity.

This has been an amazing gift and I will be forever grateful for its impact on our marriage.



  1. A one year spanking anniversary, congratulations!! It's amazing how much we learn about ourselves as we get older, and how more willing we are to try different things to enhance our relationships. You two seem to be made for each other, so again congratulations, and we wish you both many more years of fun.

  2. Way to many people outright reject adding anything new to their lives...Congratulations to both on your milestone!

  3. Wow, congratulations and good luck, you two are an inspiration and hope the spankings continue!

    Thanks for sharing

  4. Congratulations on your year of exploring. And thanks for sharing those explorations through your wonderful, well written blog.