I have been hoping the Barry would feel comfortable to personally share information about what happened last weekend with Carol. However, I don't think that is going to happen. It is still a bit raw for him and he's not ready or able to share much about it.
He and I have had a number of discussions the past week about one aspect of how Carol disciplined him. Our discussions were focused on Barry's reaction to Carol massaging and milking his prostate gland. I probably shouldn't have been, but I was surprised when Barry told me that he felt violated by her actions. At first, I didn't fully understand his reaction.. However, as we talked I became more understanding of his perception that she was personally stimulating a sexual area (the male P-spot) for the purpose of making him climax (albeit a very non-rewarding climax). He viewed that very differently than just inserting a butt plug or dildo in his bottom. He really made me stop and think when he asked me how I would feel if his brother inserted his fingers in my vagina and also used them to stimulate my clitoris to the point of climax. My honest answer was that I would feel like I was being raped. And, that is exactly how Barry felt.
I am saddened that I didn't realize that would be his reaction. I am also sorry that I gave Carol such carte blanche authority to discipline Barry. That was a mistake that I will not make again. On the positive side, I am glad to learn that there is a limit to Barry submissive side. I didn't know where that limit was (or if it existed), but now I do. That is a good thing.
We continue to grow ...