Saturday, January 3, 2015

Christmas Retreat - Part 3

Finally, the last post in this series.  I must apologize for taking so long to share our Christmas escape weekend.  It took me some time to digest and decide what to share.  And then, our children were coming for a New Year's celebration, since they couldn't be with us for Christmas.  So, I will now pick up where we left off:  at lunchtime on Christmas Day.  There were still some surprises in store for each of us.

During a light lunch we talked about what we would like to do the rest of the day.  I advised Barry, that I would really like to spend some time at the pool, jacuzzi, and sauna with him.  I reminded him that he probably needed some time to relax and recover :-).  He quickly shared that he had forgotten to pack a bathing suit.  He was not pleased when I shared that I had packed the speedo bathing suit that I had recently given him.  I also need to share with our readers that since Barry had lost weight again (he looks amazing), I love his small compact bottom.  And, it looks wonderful in a speedo bathing suit.  However, Barry is very self-conscious in it, since it shows everything in front.  He gets very self-conscious when he experiences 'shrinkage' when swimming.  The look on his face when I told him I had packed it made me very glad that I had purchased his next 'gift'.  I didn't say anything at the time, but waited until we got back to the room to change.

Back at the room, I shared my final gift with Barry: a soft packing dildo that is amazingly realistic.  I hoped that it would make him feel more comfortable wearing the speedo swimsuit.  I also liked the fact that it would make him always look about the size that I think of him.  When he put the speedo swimsuit on with the packer, he looked amazing.  I loved his tight little bum, and he loved the look from the front. We were each very pleased.  So, we went down to the pool and sauna.  We thoroughly enjoyed the time to relax with each other.  I must confess that I couldn't resist patting his sexy tight bum a couple of times.  And, I caught him grasping his crouch as well.  I was also aware of one woman in the pool area that couldn't seem to keep her eyes off of Barry's frontal area.

Needless to say, we each had a wonderful time relaxing together in the pool area, and also enjoying the jacuzzi and sauna.  When we returned to our suite, I had on last surprise for Barry.  When I learned about his submissive fantasies and activities prior to him sharing them with me, I learned about Barry's visits to dominant females who would role play with him.  His favorite roleplay was to have his female boss confront him with knowing he was spending too much time on the computer viewing porn sites.  When we returned to our room, while Barry was showering, I changed into formal office dress and greeted him when he came out of the bathroom.  He was caught completely by surprise and we had a bit of fun before we went to dinner.

When we returned to our suite for dinner, I was ready to be pleased by Barry.  He was also ready to please me. He was very grateful for all I had done.  However, we ran into a problem.  He was spent.

 He began by pleasing me orally.  However, when we proceeded further, there were problems.  He then presented his final gift to me, the Ride-on Colussus".  We have the original ride-on, but this is a tad bid longer and thicker.  Barry shared with me that he was afraid that he wouldn't be able to keep up with my needs, so this was his final gift.  He also tearfully shared his gratefulness for our wonderful time together and that his final gift also included a promise to try to please me in every way he could.

After considerable thought, I have decided to merely share that Barry more than fulfilled his promise.  The rest of our Christmas evening was ... unbelievable.  I'm not ready to share any more details than that.

I feel very blessed with what Barry and I have in our relationship.  I'm sometimes saddened that it took us so long for me to realize what he needed.  However, I'm extremely glad that we eventually came to a point where he could share his desires with me.  I'm also extremely glad that I was open to trying to understand those needs and try to meet them.    We will probably never completely meet each other's needs, but at this moment we are each trying.  What a gift to each other.

Happy New Year to everyone,



  1. A question about the soft packing diddo. It is the type the a man puts his penis into and it enhances it? How does it,stay in the speedo ?

  2. Hello All Hers. Thank you for your question. There are soft packing dildos that fit over the penis, called STP (Stand to Pee). I looked into them for Barry, but they didn't seem to look as realistic for using in a speedo bathing suit. The looked like they would not be as soft and therefore would not stand up to scrutiny in a tight bathing suit. Consequently, I purchased a softer model that looks like a flacid penis. It sits on top of Barry's package, which is not a problem, since Barry is quite small when flacid. His penis all but disappears sometimes, which is why he dislikes speedos so much. You can also purchase jock straps or briefs to hold the soft packers in place, but I didn't think they would work under the speedo. And the speedo served the same purpose. It looked so real in Barry's speedo that I don't think anyone would ever case he was packing :-). It was a lot of fun for both of us.

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  3. Thank you for your answer. I have a cock sleeve that fits onto my CB 6000 and my cock goes inside it. It is very real looking and made of soft plastic. When my cock is inside it and when I was permitted to enter my wife, I could not feel a thing. She would get all the pleasure and I would not know I was inside her except for my thrusting in and out. But it is shaped as a erection so no good for under clothes. What you have sounds nice if needed.