It was hard for me to believe that it had been over a year since I last spanked Barry. However, it had been until yesterday afernoon. I hadn't realized it and I didn't plan on spanking him yesterday. However, he forced my hand ... probably on purpose. We had been working in the yard earlier in the day doing some heavy duty gardening. Barry had agreed to move several shrubs for me, so I allowed him to be out of his chastity device. When he finished the project I still had several things to do outside. He showed me what he had accomplished and asked if there was anything else I'd like him to do before he took a shower. I said "no" without giving it a second thought. That was a mistake, because when I finished up and came into the house I found Larry in his home office at the computer with his dick in his hand. When I looked at the PC, I realized that he had just started watching a rather lengthy video (thirty some minutes). I immediately paused it and told him not to move. I departed to get something to bind his hands behind his back, which I did when I returned. I then restarted the video and left him to watch it with his hands tied behind the back of the chair while I went and took my shower.
I returned before the video was over and Barry was still watching with a rock hard erection about which he could do nothing. After the video finished, I decided to give him a bit of relief (a very little bit). I spent the next 10 minutes or so teasing him with my hands and mouth before finally allowing him to climax. However, as soon as I knew he was starting to shoot, I stopped the stimulation. That was part of the video he was watching when I returned from my shower ... so I thought it would be an appropriate way to end.
I then took Barry to our bedroom where I told him he was going to be punished for violating our agreement to not have sexual activity without me being part of it. I gave him a prolonged hard spanking with our ruler paddle and hairbrush. It wasn't overly severe, since I could tell that his bottom was tender and I knew how much he hates to be spanked after having a climax. However, I was deliberate and slow paced as I administered a very sound spanking all over his bottom. It was very uniformly red all over when I was done and he was begging me to stop. When I finally finished with a flurry of 20 or so hard swats of the hairbrush at the very base of his bottom, I took him in my arms. At that time I was surprised to hear him say "Thank you, I've missed that for such a long time". That is when I realized that it had been over a year since I had last spanked him, and realized that his little session with the computer was probably done on purpose to get me to spank him.
We spent a long time talking last night and this morning. We're still sorting things out, but talking is good.