I want to express my appreciation for the responses to my last post. I really appreciate the caring and support that Barry and I receive. We continue to work through this and we are open to new ideas. Tri-mix definitely falls into the category of new ideas for us; and we will explore it. However, I'm not sure we will explore it through a gyn doctor. I'm not sure why the anonymous comment made that suggestion as a source. Perhaps more could be shared to help us understand.
We have been and continue to work with more direct physical support. We are currently using the Ride-on dildo that slips over Barry's penis when I have a desire to be penetrated. It works well when Barry can achieve some level of erection. It also makes him feel good about being able to penetrate me. However, I have to confess that I used to joke about it being my trophy cock. It no longer feels that way, because I miss the realness of Barry's penis. It's not the same and I miss that realness of his erection within me. However, it is still wonderful.
What is more wonderful is Barry's desire to please me with his mouth and his hands. Those skills were already developed as we moved into the realm of devotional sex. I am also now learning how to develop new devotional sex skills to please Barry. It is a wonderful equalizing gift. It also makes each of us more fully appreciate the concept of devotional sex. We each want to please each other. And we each need to find new ways to do so. The good news is that we are each doing that.
Thank you, my friends, for your understanding and support. As or lives change,understanding, caring, and support is important.