Thursday, August 13, 2015

A Challenging Summer

I want to begin by expressing my appreciation to those of you who submitted comments or sent emails to me indicating that you missed us and hoped we were OK.  I can't begin to adequately share how meaningful they were.

It's been a tough spring and summer for Barry and me, but we are fine.  Shortly after my last post, we learned that Barry was still having some heart issues.  Fortunately, he didn't have another heart attack, because we acted promptly.  However, he did end up with two more stents being installed.  Since then, my complete focus has been on his rehab and working to learn and do all we can to help prevent another episode.  Consequently, my heart and mind have not been on posting.  I'm just now beginning to realize how much I miss it.  And, I want to apologize for not at least posting something to share what was going on in our lives.

This recent heart event, along with some additional medications that Barry is taking, has created another surprise in our lives ... erectile dysfunction.  Barry had previously experienced it on occasion.  However, after this heart event, it came on with a vengeance.   We have learned that it is pretty common with heart situations.  Needless to say, it is frustrating to both of us, but especially for Barry.  However, we have been learning how to work with it.  I don't want to go into more detail right now, but will try to share more in subsequent posts.



  1. Hi Susan,
    So good to hear from you and relieved to hear that you are overcoming Barry's health struggles.
    Getting older isn't easy and I had related to some of your previous posts about occasional erection problems. I have thought that our sexual focus would naturally shift from my penis to balls and anus. Of course, the main focus is now on my wife's pussy!
    Anyway, glad to hear from you again and hope that you will post as able. I greatly enjoy reading your blog as it is the one I can best relate to. I know that it is difficult to find the time to write as my neglected blog can attest to.


  2. Susan, it is so good to hear from you and I couldn't be happier that it seems Barry is on the healing side of his health matters. Whew .....

    You didn't specify whether or not Barry had a loss of desire along with the erectile dysfunction, but assuming his desire for you sexually hasn't waned, hopefully you both will be able to allow the love and worship that he has for you to continue to be at the forefront of your FLM efforts. After all, at the end of the day, it has very little to do with me or my penis, if at all, and everything to do with pleasure for my Mistress. As a aside, do remember that there is a little plum-sized organ inside of Barry's bottom that may likely still appreciate stimulation that may otherwise have been directed toward an erect penis.

    Again, so happy to hear things are looking up and am excited that it seems we'll all be hearing more from both of you. Welcome back!



  3. Susan,

    I have been following your blog for several months now, absolutely love it, and was very sorry to learn that Barry has been again having health problems. But I was greatly heartened to learn that Barry's health seems to be on the mend.

    Wishing you both all the best,

  4. Hi Barry and Susan, Sorry about this struggle. Maybe some nice foreplay spankings if done right would help ? Must be things to try, besides medications.

  5. Susan- Thank you for Your and Barry's post on this topic, educating us, as ever.
    Hoping for good things for you, and sure they will happen!