tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post9110551714250214892..comments2024-01-27T08:05:40.382-05:00Comments on A Spanking Marriage: Changes in the BedroomSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00832251915881354845noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-33695476078874982092014-08-12T15:09:20.784-04:002014-08-12T15:09:20.784-04:00I do like this blog. Susan seems so nice and under...I do like this blog. Susan seems so nice and understanding but also brave and adventurous. I have taught my wife to use the paddle and she is comfortable with it, but we are way within the boundaries that Susan keeps.<br /><br />The biggest encouragement I find is that you like to do it. Sounds so like paradise to me I wonder if you are real sometimes.Tony Conradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02346695322947517602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-79966890818165521912013-09-17T17:31:37.988-04:002013-09-17T17:31:37.988-04:00Amazing....I can't wait to read about your tho...Amazing....I can't wait to read about your thoughts on spanking.<br />ThanksNjspankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07839344536156873192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-3729002366006328382013-09-12T00:37:17.199-04:002013-09-12T00:37:17.199-04:00Thanks for this update Susan.
As far as what I...Thanks for this update Susan.<br /><br />As far as what I've seen written about, you and Barry are exploring new territory. It's only of academic interest to try to define exactly where you are, but I think Devotional Sex has changed what you and Barry do and how it feels to such an extent that I would be happy to describe your dynamic as very kinky Devotional Sex. <br /><br />Making Barry responsible for the chastity device and him not wearing it most of the time you are together is a huge difference from what usually happens in the chastity world. Perhaps Barry still thinks of this as modified chastity, but it seem to me that for you it is Devotional Sex which keeps Barry happy.<br /><br />Princess Sarah wrote on my forum that before Devotional Sex she felt that if she did any of her husbands kinky fantasies they would be his fantasies, and that if she asked for any of her fantasies then he would take them over, and as a result she drew back from kink. But with Devotional Sex as she felt in control she suddenly enjoyed doing her version of his fantasies and her own fantasies.<br /><br />It seems that you have had the same experience - by feeling genuinely in control of kinky activities more kinky is happening. And not only is this really great for you, but of course Barry is enjoying more kink as a result.<br /><br />How your vanilla sex has changed is also my experience. With 'normal' sex intercourse tends to happen almost every session. With Devotional Sex it tends to happen only about half the time (but as there can be lots more sessions the amount of intercourse may even increase). I think I'm the only person writing that women don't want intercourse every time they want sexual activity.<br /><br />I very much look forward to the next update.<br /><br /><br />Michael Wilbur-Hamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08995832602223602017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2037068008637131224.post-31837394221690602412013-09-11T17:22:49.007-04:002013-09-11T17:22:49.007-04:00I am very interested in how devotional sex is work...I am very interested in how devotional sex is working for you as I feel that it would be very fitting for my wife and I.<br />We have been spanking for fun for many years, birthday spanking, spanking during sex, but it has never been for punishment or discipline. There hasn't been much need for it and I enjoy it too much to be a punishment.<br />I like it more than my wife does, but we do like to switch.<br />We have been enjoying the benefits of orgasm control for me with prolonged tease and denial. More orgasms for her and a Knight to serve her. <br />Looking forward to hearing more about your devotional sex.<br /><br />MrbillMRBILLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11597570611708345645noreply@blogger.com